Isteri kita ni, anugerah teragung Allah yang sangat unik buat kita.
Masa kita bercinta dengan dia dulu, takde cacat celanya. Semua nampak perfect. Maklum sajalah, hati dah suka.
Yang tak berkenan sikit-sikit tu kita halalkan saja. Kalau ada yang tak serupa dengan kita, kita akan usahakan supaya jadi sama seia sekata.
...Continue ReadingOur wife, Allah's greatest gift that is very unique to us.
When we were in love with him first, there was no flaw. Everything looks perfect. Just be advised, the heart is fond of it.
Those who don't like it, let's just make it easy. If there's something that's not similar to us, we'll try to be the same as the same as us.
We will be equally equated. What's not our favorite, we'll pretend to like and like.
There is no world that is more beautiful than the world when in love. Short words, even his farts we say it smells good!
If we speak, we will speak softly. If we walk we will lead our hands.
When we're married, we sit together. Now we know a lot of secret things. There are many things that we don't like.
That's not perfect enough. This is not in the eyes. All sorts of shortcomings we're starting to feel.
Even the tone of voice is increasing. If you don't get a little, you'll remember No one wants to be sweet.
If you walk together, 2, 3 pillars will be left behind. If you have a child, then you'll do it. Wife is busy with children, we are busy breathing fresh air alone.
That's the time, we start to feel that we don't rush to get married first, maybe we can find someone else better.
But there it is. As long as we don't marry him, we won't see what his weaknesses and weaknesses are.
And if we marry someone else, we will feel the same thing.
Yes, not married, we really feel like someone else is better than our wives. But after marriage only know that others have many shortcomings.
So be grateful. That is our soulmate who is the best provision of Allah for us.
Friends, there is no perfect human.
As we see our wives are not perfect, we are also human like her. We are not perfect either.
As we see our wives have many weaknesses, we are also human like her. We have many weaknesses too.
Later, when our wives are no longer here, that weakness will be a loss.
If our wife likes to talk, wait when she's gone. That letter will be a loss. We will miss.
If our wife likes to protest us, wait when she's gone. The protest will be a loss. We will miss.
If our wives like to ask us to do this, wait when she's gone. That Surabaya will be a loss. We will miss.
If our wife likes to clean the house until we get crazy, wait when she's gone. The golden will be a loss. We will miss.
If our wife likes to tell us all sorts of things, wait when she's gone. His words will be a loss. We will miss.
If our wife likes to fight with us, wait when she's gone. His fight will be a loss. We will miss.
If our wife sleeps snoring, wait when she's gone. The snoring will be a loss. We will miss.
If our wife sleeps her teeth, wait when she's gone. That rushing will be a loss. We will miss.
If our wives sleep hard, wait when they're gone. Sleeping is going to be a loss. We will miss.
If our wives always sulk, wait when they're gone. That knit will be a loss. We will miss.
If our wives sometimes their fight hurts us, wait when they're gone. The heartache will be a loss. We will miss.
Allah... at that time, we will ask Allah to extend another moment. We want to say love, love and miss our wives.
Friends, rather than we are tired of finding perfection, we better be part of the perfection of our partner.
Marriage is complementary.
What we are more, that will perfect our wives. Which he is more, that's what will perfect ourselves as husbands.
Learning to keep your chest open. Learning to be grateful. Learn enough with what you have.
The time we have is not much anymore. Whether we go first to face our Divine or wife who goes first. Its just a matter of time.
If this is the last chance we have, take advantage of it. Don't act when you're gone.
Because after that the distance between our separation in the world with the reunion in heaven is an uncertain distance...
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Credit: KHAIRUL ANUAR BASRITranslated
