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「謙虛」是一種美德，我們從小到大所受到的教育，都認為高傲自大是一件很糟糕的事情，所謂的驕兵必敗是我們耳熟能詳的概念。
是的，我承認「謙虛」是一種美德，況且所謂的「謙虛」是建立在你已經有強大的價值與實力之上，你才有得「謙虛」，所以我並不會反對這件事情。
但是謙虛這件事情在blue Pill世界已經被過度扭曲了，甚至被許多人當做是一種「兩性動態」的加分。
「阿我一定是上輩子敲破了很多木魚這輩子才能交到這麼棒的女友。」
「我真的好幸運喔，她其實有很多選擇，但是最後卻選擇我。」
他們認為透過把自己打壓地很低，也就是相對地把女人捧得很高，女人就會被吸引。
然而當「謙虛」這個美德被Beta Game給濫用誤用之後，它其實已經不是美德了，而且不但不是美德，還會傷及你的框架以及兩性動態。
本次直播我和奧客會跟大家聊紅藥丸教父九鐵則的最後一個鐵則: 在任何情形下面都不要自我矮化 (Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance)。
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直播連結
https://youtu.be/yerXyJ_JyWk
For all my IELTS students (particularly those attending my Speaking lesson today)
The reason I admire Hugh Grant's style of speech is that he thinks as he speaks, uses simple words and phrases and is always so succinct and to the point.
I have seen tonnes of Hugh Grant interviews. The stuff he says tends to be repetitive, yet I cannot help but still admire his timeless style and mannerisms. Most important of all, what he says is truly original, unpretentious and oddly refreshing.
He would make one of the best coaches on how to give an interview ever. I reckon his top 5 tips would be:
1. Say the unconventional but truthful things
2. Exaggerate
3. Keep a straight face when telling jokes
4. No need to try and please your interviewer
5. Self deprecate all the way
The best anti-celebrity we have still.
#作哥哥睇片學英文系列 #搵人一齊睇Paddington2 #HughGrant #OnActing #Bafta
https://youtu.be/EnfSxdDY9CY
馬上加入「紅藥丸覺醒紀元 - 當代男人兩性動態生存法則」線上課程
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上次直播只講了鐵則一，這次直播我和奧客從第二個鐵則開始聊。
鐵則二：永遠不要誠實或是不誠實地跟你的現任伴侶揭露你過去和幾個女人上床或是你的性愛細節。(NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.)
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Rollo Tomassi，被公認為紅藥丸教父之一的男人，他年輕的時候是個搖滾明星，也是搞藝術的，所以打滾在女人之間，在這中間也有許多男性在感情上遇到困難與糾結都去找他，讓他看盡了男女之間的真實動態。
本次直播我和奧客會聊聊在他著名的著作 The Rational Male 裡面有提到紅藥丸覺醒九個鐵則。
1. 框架就是一切，永遠意識到目前你正在掌控的框架平衡。永遠掌控這框架，但並不要弄得自己像是個操控狂。(Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.)
2. 永遠不要誠實或是不誠實地跟你的現任伴侶揭露你過去和幾個女人上床或是你的性愛細節。(NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.)
3. 任何女人如果刻意地讓你等待性愛，或是她透過行動讓你等待性愛，那麼這性愛就不值得你等。(Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.)
4. 在任何情況下都不要跟還沒跟你結婚的女人同居，或是你們在未來六個月都還沒規劃要結婚的女人同居。(NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.)
5. 永遠不要讓女人控制生育。(NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.)
6. 女人沒有辦法用男人期待女人愛男人的方式，來愛男人。(Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.)
7. 如果關係破裂，開發新歡永遠比拯救彌補破裂的舊愛好。(It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.)
8. 永遠讓女人去思索為什麼她不跟你打炮，你絕對不要去幫她思索這件事情。(Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuxk you, never do it for her.)
9. 在任何情形下面都不要自我矮化。(Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance.)
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那個奧客的頻道
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqEzIi3BnHyTis0NW-6-h2A
加入「選擇你的現實2.0」訂閱請點此
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提昇的你社交自信線上課程「夢想生活 - 全世界都是你的社交圈」
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Rollo Tomassi - The Rational Male
https://amzn.to/2Zvmyia
馬上加入「紅藥丸覺醒紀元 - 當代男人兩性動態生存法則」線上課程
https://abovelight.com/red-pill-era/
--
Rollo Tomassi，被公認為紅藥丸教父之一的男人，他年輕的時候是個搖滾明星，也是搞藝術的，所以打滾在女人之間，在這中間也有許多男性在感情上遇到困難與糾結都去找他，讓他看盡了男女之間的真實動態。
本次直播我和奧客會聊聊在他著名的著作 The Rational Male 裡面有提到紅藥丸覺醒九個鐵則。
1. 框架就是一切，永遠意識到目前你正在掌控的框架平衡。永遠掌控這框架，但並不要弄得自己像是個操控狂。(Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.)
2. 永遠不要誠實或是不誠實地跟你的現任伴侶揭露你過去和幾個女人上床或是你的性愛細節。(NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.)
3. 任何女人如果刻意地讓你等待性愛，或是她透過行動讓你等待性愛，那麼這性愛就不值得你等。(Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.)
4. 在任何情況下都不要跟還沒跟你結婚的女人同居，或是你們在未來六個月都還沒規劃要結婚的女人同居。(NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.)
5. 永遠不要讓女人控制生育。(NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.)
6. 女人沒有辦法用男人期待女人愛男人的方式，來愛男人。(Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.)
7. 如果關係破裂，開發新歡永遠比拯救彌補破裂的舊愛好。(It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.)
8. 永遠讓女人去思索為什麼她不跟你打炮，你絕對不要去幫她思索這件事情。(Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuxk you, never do it for her.)
9. 在任何情形下面都不要自我矮化。(Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance.)
--
那個奧客的頻道
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqEzIi3BnHyTis0NW-6-h2A
加入「選擇你的現實2.0」請點此
https://abovelight.com/join-choose-your-reality-sub/
「Game出你的社交圈」電子書免費下載
https://abovelight.com/join-ab-community/
提昇的你社交自信線上課程「夢想生活 - 全世界都是你的社交圈」
https://abovelight.com/dream-life-social/
AB的異想世界黃金訂閱
https://abovelight.com/subscribe/
AB一對一線上諮詢服務
https://abovelight.com/consult-ab/
youtube: https://www.youtube.com/abovelight
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AbovelightLife/
instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abovelightlife/
官方部落格網站: https://www.abovelight.com/
Rollo Tomassi - The Rational Male
https://amzn.to/2Zvmyia
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