"Saya pelik tengok anak2 akak semua jenis dengar cakap....buat semua yang akak suruh..."
Ye sebab akak garang😡😡😡
Hehe takut tak😂
...Continue Reading′′ I'm weird looking at all my children who listen to it.... do everything that I ask..."
Because I'm fierce 😡😡😡
Hehe scared or not 😂
Actually, children are like that because we have applied ′′ service culture ′′ to parents since children were still young. Since they can understand the instructions. So when children are used to instructions, they are used to ′′ service culture ", they will easily listen to and easily fulfill every parent s' request.
Example of ′′ service culture ′′ in family for children
- pinch mom and dad always 💆🏻🙇🏼 ♀️
- serve food 🍛🍲
- provide medicine for sick family members 💊
- spoon the rice 🍚
- get drinks when mom and dad are thirsty 🥃
- plucking fruits for mom and dad 🥝🍌🍎
- open / close fence and door 🔐
- put on umi's socks and shoes. Umi noticed Cinderella 👠
- sister / brother feed the rice to the younger sibling
- get things left behind
- on off fan switch / light switch
- looking for missing items 🕵🏼 ♀️🔎
- cleaning up the house
- wipe the table after eating
- dishwasher
- payungkan umi and dad ⛱
- and many more service activities
When you want to ask, mother must use the word ′′ Help ′′ and the language is better to be beautiful. ′′ Honey, please clean this table..."
Don't be when your child is grown up, you'll just start calling ′′ love ", when your child will hear you feel disgusted
But don't just do anything for us, we also have to do things that make our children happy.
- kisses and hugs always
- joking around
- telling stories of religious children
- mom is praying together with the children
- talking about the heaven of hell, about the charity scale in Al Mizan's balance so that he understands why he has to be rewarded.
- bathe, shameless & cut hair. Every time you talk to your child, ′′ when you're old, this is how you have to do it to your mother, bathe, shameless ". Can you?. Give her a promise. Talk about the same thing, let the child digest the sentence.
- umi cooks deliciously, cooks her child's favorite cooking
- have time to practice eating annoyed. Talk about the same thing, talk softly, ′′ later when mom and dad are old, (the name of the child) will be fed too.... Can I? Also say repeat.
- take care of your child when he's sick. Always hugging him and giving the sentences of emotional touch like the sentence when he was bathing and annoyed just now 😉
- cut child's nails every Friday
- buy a favorite gift / reward when your child behaves well.
- do various activities together. Make a WONDERFUL MOMENT to be remembered by children when they grow up. For example, during holiday, asking for picnic, playing badminton together, jogging together... worship is also done together.
BIG ABST ❗️
❌ Mom don't talk
Children who are frequented will be hard to educate. Hard to hear the word.
❌ Right kids make their own things with HP, watching TV is not useful. Kids will be harder to hear the word.
❌ one big mistake when parents buy HP for children who are still in school! Without our knowledge, there are many ′′ weird stories ′′ he can see. This will make the heart darker. It's getting harder to absorb advice.
❌ let the kids go out with friends. Especially the motor gang, bike gang, ball gang. Take care of your children from the negative influences of your friends. Let people say we lock our children up!
Oh my God, I was wrong before... the kids are big now... and it's hard to listen to. What should I do?
✔️ Mom changes her attitude. Stop talking. Start praying. Remember, Allah is the one who holds his heart. She can change asbab of mother's prayer.
✔️ Throw away the ego. Apologies with the kids. Confessing self mistakes. Inviting children to change.
✔️ Many prayers for Tahajud prayers / prayer wishes. Pray for the beautiful children.
How can I make sure that prayer is mustajab?
✔️ Mom, pray in the prayerful times. For example, the time between azan and iqomah, 15 minutes before breaking fast, when it rained, the last 1/3 nights which is after 3 am, the time of asar is Friday, when the mother is done doing worship (e.g. after reading the al quran ), after giving charity. It's better to talk to every good deeds so that Allah can answer our prayers.
✔️ Mother don't do bad things that become hijab on the granted of prayer. Mom keep the use, keep the mouth, keep the heart. Also taking care of the source of sustenance / nutrition.
May Allah swt give us taufiq (strength to make change) and guidance (guidance for us to be better).
P / s Please comment the sign of ukhuwwah.
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Thank God, it's fulfilled, promise to write these long tips.
As a mother, I know I'm not perfect enough... I also struggle to make myself the best model in the eyes of children.... not easy but we have to work..... I believe, there are more perfect mothers out there... and i pray that Allah will give me strength like them.
Let's all try to do the best for our children... with effort and prayer 😊
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