【一支小雨傘】One Little Umbrella
(English writing below)
我人生中的狂風暴雨,都有他打著傘陪我走過。
以前還沒嫁時,三兩頭都會被媽媽打,都是他在凌晨時分睡眼矇矓地聽我在電話中哭訴。
以前我胃痛成疾,他買了很多巧克力、麥片、胃痛藥,放在一個小包,要我帶出國。
他到現在還是一樣天天打理我的飲食。有他在,我三餐固定。我少吃蝦,因為有一次被蝦殼割傷,後來他知道了,就為我剝。
以前我問他,會不會不喜歡我當空姐。他說,他等著和我結婚能有免費機票去利物浦看球。
後來,我問他會不會不喜歡我當風水師。他說不會,他覺得很有趣,而且結合佛法來渡眾生,這樣的工作很有意義。
我能夠無顧慮地站在大眾前,因為背後一直有他......幫忙做家務。 😄
我那支影片被放在男性論壇時,我第一個想到的人就是他。
我把論壇的嘰嘰歪歪截圖發給他。他還在工作,卻立馬就打電話給我。
他電話裡頭的第一句話:「你OK嗎?」
我問他會不會不喜歡我講這類的課題,而引來這些麻煩?
他說不會,因為我是在利生,沒有在做花枝招展的事情。他也知道,我和男客人之間從不搞曖昧。
我問他如果他家人看到了,不喜歡我如此拋頭露面,引來這些男人的批評,他會不會阻止我?
他說不會,他會告訴他們我做什麼,他都知道,他都同意,叫我不要怕。
結婚前,他說過不會阻止我做我喜歡的事情。
結婚後,他依然不變初衷。
到現在,如果我有心事,無論他工作多累,他依然會半夢半醒地聽我傾訴。
我一生好像都過得很另類,很反傳統,沒有像一般新加坡女生的生活格式。我常常也覺得自己好像是個怪胎,做著別人嗤之以鼻的事。
可他從頭到尾,從來沒有嫌棄我,沒有退縮過,處處包容我,體恤我。
我問他,與我結婚會辛苦嗎?
他說,不會,我沒有發脾氣時,一切都很美好,只是我好像長不大的猴子,但這也是這婚姻的樂趣。他說幸好我們沒有孩子,要不然家裡那麽多隻猴子,我一定就是那個猴頭老大,帶著小猴子們一起瘋癲,他就會是那個厭世的爸爸。
他叫我無需拿我們的婚姻和別人比。他就是因為我不一樣,才會娶我。
這樣的婚姻,我想應該可以走很久吧~
老公,結婚十四週年快樂。❤️
01.01.2006
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In the many thunderstorms of my life, he is always with by my side with an open umbrella.
Before we got married, whenever I was thrashed by my Mum, he would always be on the other end of the line, barely awake, listening to my sobs, at midnight hours.
I used to have bad gastric bouts, so he would pack lots of chocolates, instant oats, antacids into a small pouch and tell me to bring it overseas.
Till today, he is still taking charge of my meals. With him around, I have regular meals.
I do not like to peel prawns for once, my fingers got cut by a prawn shell. So all these years, he would peel for me voluntarily.
Once I asked him, if he minded me being an air stewardess. He replied, that he was looking forward to marrying me so that he would get a free air ticket to watch his Liverpool team play.
Later on, I asked him if he minded me being a Feng Shui practitioner. He said no. He thought that it was interesting and with me combining it with Dharma, it was a meaningful job to bring hope to people.
The reason why I can stand in front of everyone without any worry is because of him.... helping out with the chores at home 😁
When that Youtube video of mine: https://youtu.be/lPH26j2XQGw, became the subject of a “heated” discussion in some men's forums, the first person I thought of was him.
I sent him screenshots of the discussion thread. He was at work yet he called me immediately.
His first words were “Are you OK?”
I asked him if he disliked the subject I spoke about in the video and attracted these troubles?
He said he did not mind because I was benefiting others, and did not behave flirtatiously in the video. He also knew there was no hanky panky between my male clients and I.
I asked him if his family got to see this video and disliked these unwanted attention, would he stop me?
He said no, and that he would explain to his family that he was aware of what I did and gave his full blessings to my work. He asked me to have no fear.
Before marriage, he told me he would not stop me from pursuing my dreams. After marriage, his words still hold true.
Till now, when I am troubled, he would still make the effort to hear me out, despite being in a drowsy state.
My whole life has been unconventional, bordering on the eccentric, unlike the lifestyle of most Singaporean ladies. I often think I am an oddball, doing things that most people would scoff at.
Yet since the beginning till now, he did not once back down, but showered me with understanding and consideration.
I ask him if being married to me was tough for him.
He said no. When I’m not in a foul temper, things are beautiful. I am like a monkey who never grows up, but this is also the uniqueness of our marriage. He said he was glad that we didn't have children. Otherwise, with so many monkeys in the home, I would be that Monkey King doing crazy things with all the little monkeys and he would be that frantic papa trying to pull everything together for a sane household.
He told me there is no need for me to compare our marriage with others'. He married me because I was different.
Well, I guess this kind of marriage can probably go a long way.
Cubby, Happy 14th Anniversary!
01.01.2006
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【你問我答Round 1 Part 3/3】 (English writing below but imho Chinese one is funnier...)
QUESTION 3: Joseph Ng
「季謙您好,請問一個人如何能在諸多煩惱中找到一片刻的安寧?」
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【庸人才自擾】
我答:
師兄如果只是要「片刻」的安寧,又何必問我呢?
在這人間,要得「片刻」的安寧,方法很多,聽個音樂、和朋友喝喝茶,甚至刷刷臉書看貓看狗看勵志片,方法之多,任君挑。
我自幼家事甚多、煩惱纏身,皈依佛教,修習密法,圖的正是『永恆』的安寧。
我的人,和我的風水術一樣,講求實在。
「片刻」有何用?「片刻」能多久?一首歌的時間?還是一部長電影的時間?
「片刻」過後,你的心,還不是一樣不安寧,中間更耗了不少福份,這種自欺欺人的事,老娘才不幹。😄
有無煩惱,都由自己的心來決定。
您的心,沒有戒力、沒有定力、沒有慧力,閉塞了,看隻螞蟻都是煩惱,一天到晚,都要唱「最近比較煩,比較煩,比較煩......」。
跟你說些我的故事吧!
一輛車要有好風水,首先裡外都要乾淨。像我這照片裡的車,土煞甚多,非常不詳。
無奈從然我免費指點,客人擲千金才得的知識,這車子的主人卻常常不聽。
一年前,我偶然看到臉書照片,便指點一位講座出席者,趕快換個新的電腦鍵盤。他的鍵盤,因長年使用,好些鍵上的字符已「功成身退」。
當時那位出席者未見過我,他卻把我的話銘記在心,幾天內就買了個新鍵盤。
我們用來謀財的工具永遠都要保持在最佳狀態,內在美固然重要,但顏值也不能太差勁。這樣我們的「正財」才能很順利地飛入我們的口袋。
這兩件事情,真的是讓我歡喜,讓我煩......
再說另外一件事。
某日,我本應約要到新加坡的西部看場居家風水。
在勘察的前一天,年輕的女客人突然向我要求我手機號碼。
我告訴她我一向都沒有給手機號碼的習慣,只通過臉書聯絡,所有的客人都一樣。
她反問我:「你不覺得給號碼會比較有誠意和容易溝通嗎?」
坦白說,家門口常塞了很多房屋經紀的傳單。他們的手機號碼都印得大大的,你會覺得那就是誠意嗎?
我掏心掏肺寫了400多篇文章,開了近70場臉書直播,每一條留言我幾乎都會回復,這不是我誠意的表現嗎?沒有這些,只有手機號碼,妳會來找我嗎?
一個隨便都可以換的手機號碼,和一個成立多年的臉書帳戶,只有前者才算真實嗎?
我並沒辯解太多,便和客人達成協議,取消了那場風水。
這樣的事情,會讓我煩惱嗎?
她的要求不過份,只是咱倆的觀點不一樣,把這事寫出來,並非在損她,想說的是......
如果我執著於那個紅包,
擔心她在背後批評我,慫恿別人不來找我服務,
很介意為何最親的家人,還不如一個陌生人那般的重視我的指導,
如果我只在意結果,而不能享受這過程,
我永遠都會在煩惱,沒有一刻安寧。
我選擇智慧。
我師尊,蓮生活佛,曾說:「以無所得故,立斷煩惱。」
有欲望,就會有煩惱。
有求的時候,煩。
追求的過程,煩。
得到了要守住,煩。
得不到,更煩。
得到了,又要追求新的,煩煩煩。
最好笑的就是,到頭來,卻什麼都帶不走,唯有業隨身。業障多,煩惱也多,所以大家都要勤守戒,勤消業,才能談得上自在快樂。
其實很多事情是求不到的。本來什麼都沒有,連煩惱也是空。
我們來地球只是做賓客罷了,有賓就有主,我們的心就是主。
心放得下,一切就能活得自然。一般人是做不到,這需要皈依明師,修習心法。
也有另外一個說法,就是一個人居家和公司的風水如果不好,煩惱也會比較多,上班煩,回到家看到老婆大人也煩,每個月看銀行存則,更是煩不甚煩。
怎樣,師兄,要雙管齊下,看看風水,安安心嗎?😄
祝大家早日皈依明師,修得心能轉境,而不會被境轉。
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Last question from Joseph Ng in my Saturday's AMA:
"Hi Ji Qian, may I ask how can a person find a moment of tranquility amidst all the afflictions?"
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My answer:
Dear Dharma Brother, if a "moment" of tranquility is what you are after, why is there a need to ask me?
In this mortal world, there are many ways to get this "moment" of peace. You can listen to a song, go have tea with some friends, or just swipe your Facebook and look at cats, dogs or some motivational video.
The methods are many, for your picking.
I grew in family of conflicts, and had been ridden with afflictions since young. I take refuge in the Triple Gems and practice Varjayana Buddhism, so that I can achieve "eternal" inner peace.
My personality is just like my Feng Shui skills. I go for practicality.
What is the point of a "moment"? How long can a moment last? As long as the song sings? As long as the long movie plays?
After that "moment" flies by, your heart remains turbulent, and your fortune get exhausted in your pursuits of momental peace. I don't have the habit of self-deception. 😄
Vexation or not, your mind decides.
If your mind does not have precept strength, meditative strength and wisdom strength, and is clogged, even looking at an ant will cause you affliction. From day to night, you can only be singing, "最近比較煩,比較煩,比較煩......"
Let me tell you some of my stories!
The first and foremost thing about a car's Feng Shui is to keep the car clean at all times.
A car of such "cleanliness" in this photo carries a lot of 土煞 (baleful energies due to excessive Earth).
Pity the owner of this car doesn't always listen to me, despite me dishing out free advice that people pay good money for.
A year ago, I advised a workshop participant to change his keyboard, when I saw his FB photo. His keyboard had many missing characters from the keys, due to long years of usage.
Having never met me in person before, he took my advice to heart and bought a new keyboard within days.
Our tools of trade must always be kept in tip-top and pristine condition, in order to constantly receive wealth from our careers with as little drama and obstructions as possible.
These two separate incidents brought me joy and worry at the same time...
Another story:
One day, I was supposed to head to the west of Singapore for a Feng Shui audit.
The day before, the young female client suddenly asked me for my mobile phone number.
I told her that I never had the practice of giving out my number. I only communicate via FB, and it applied to all clients.
She asked me, "Don't you think it is more sincere and easier to communicate with a number?"
Honestly speaking, our gates are often stuffed with many flyers from property agents. Their numbers are printed in big fonts across the paper. Will you consider that as sincerity?
I poured my heart out in writing 400+ posts and did 70+ FB Lives. I replied to almost every comment. Isn't that a show of my sincerity? Without all these, but just a phone number, would you have looked for me?
A mobile number that can be easily changed vs a Facebook account that has been established for years. Should only the former be considered authentic?
I didn't explain much with the client, but I reached a consensus with her and cancelled the audit.
Will such an incident cause affliction for me?
Her request wasn't too much. Just that our viewpoints are different. I wrote this, not to make her look bad, but to say...
If I am stubborn about that angpow I could have gotten,
If I worry about her talking bad behind me, encouraging other people not to look for me,
If I am very affected with why my closed ones do not value my teachings as much as a complete stranger,
If I only care about the end result, and fail to enjoy the process,
I will ALWAYS be suffering in afflictions, never having any moment of peace.
I choose to live my life with wisdom.
My Grandmaster, Living Buddha Lian Sheng, once expounded: 「以無所得故,立斷煩惱。」
As long as there is desire, there will be afflictions.
When you have a want, you feel troubled.
In pursuing your want, you feel troubled.
When you have gotten your want, and wish to guard it, you feel troubled.
When you can't get what you want, you feel even more troubled.
When you chase a new want, after getting what you want, the process starts all over again.
The most amusing thing is, at the end of the day, nobody can take away anything from here, except their personal karma.
The more karmic obstructions there are, the more vexations you will have.
Hence, my advice to everyone: be steadfast in adhering to your precepts and eradicate your negative karma diligently. Only then will you be truly at ease and joyous.
There are many things in the word that can't be sought. Everything amounts to emptiness. Even afflictions.
We are here on Earth as guests. When there are guests, there must be a host. Our minds are our hosts.
If your mind can let go, you can live life in a natural way. Most people aren't able to do it. That requires taking refuge in an accomplished master, and practice mental cultivation.
There's another explanation for your vexations too.
When a person does not have good Feng Shui at home and in his office, he tend to feel troubled frequently. He feels troubled at home, and the feeling intensified when he returns home and see his wife. Every month when he sees his bankbook, he feels most troubled.
So, my dear Dharma brother, do you want to get your Feng Shui audited to give your heart some peace? 😄
May everyone take refuge in an accomplished Master soon, and cultivate your mind to remain unperturbed as external conditions change, and have the ability to change them instead.
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【玳瑚師父課室】《第34場回顧:知己知靈,百戰百勝餐會》
34th Recap: Discovering the World of Spirits
(English version below)
2017年8月3日,玳瑚師父舉辦了第34場餐會,主旨教導大家了解內靈和外靈,如何影響我們的起心動念、言談舉止和命運。
有位女士送師父一束多色的花卉。師父說一切都是佛法,然後接著解釋哪些花的顏色代表息災、敬愛和降伏。
人就是因爲沒有道德,所以現在世界才那麼亂。
一位出席者說自己是佛教徒,師父便問,如果是,怎麼不會對師父合掌頂禮呢?
那爲什麼我們要做到這樣?爲什麼我們要學會稱呼師父或長輩?當我們拜下來時,我們在學習把我們的傲慢給放下。
我們有傲慢的一天,我們的心就有魔。
餐會精彩回顧:
一、 我們根本不是一個人,一直都有「人」在看。
二、 房間風水亂,就會產生憂鬱症。
三、 師父稱讚女出席者,有聽取他在上次餐會的建議,毅然地削了長髮。
四、 太遲睡,肝脂肪會過高。
五、 宗教沒有錯,錯的是人。法,給正人修,就是正法。法,給邪人修,就是邪法。
六、 我們希望纏身靈原諒我們,我們先要學會原諒別人。
七、 冤家宜解不宜結。
八、 玳瑚師父請出席者們寫下「聖」與「魔」兩字,再請她們說出字裡的含義。
師父接著分析這兩個漢字的
九、 如何從現實生活中,看出我們的冤親債主纏身靈是否已離開我們?
十、師父勸導出席者,爲什麼必須認回父親。
十一、 如果一個長輩有老人痴呆症,如何讓她他們聽到佛法?
十二、人,爲什麼會駝背?
十三、爲什麼皮膚會不斷生東西?
十四、爲什麼孩子會兔唇?
十五、爲什麼會軟骨?
十六、有些人一直都無法成功,因爲遭到靈的影響,而把個人情感混合在工作裡。
十七、教導孩子的最佳方法,不是陪伴她他而已,而是給予她他智慧。
十八、爲什麼富豪會那麼有錢?
當晚,某位出席者報名參加活動後,卻玩「失蹤」,沒有回覆簡訊。後來,她才坦承報名後,害怕知道靈的世界,再加上工作壓力,因此沒回覆,本想缺席。
師父斥責她沒責任感,沒有爲師父的助理著想,祇想著自己。一開始也沒向師父坦承,直到師父責問,出席者起初不承認,後來才吞吞吐吐地說出原由。
師父指出撒謊又沒打理好衣裝的人,特別容易招靈的干擾。當晚,這位小姐的樣子也異於常態。
師父給這位小姐機會說出真實話,提醒她不要編故事,道歉就是了。但對方性格強硬,不知己過,堅持自己沒有撒謊,後來師父請她離開餐會。
事後三天,這位小姐嘗試撥電給師父道歉,因爲已覺得自己錯。
師父常說,他舉辦餐會,主旨在於取之社會,用於社會。師父也並非傻子,不收錢地免費指點眾生。但師父曾經發過願,要以玄學和佛法同步利益有情,因此就要抽出時間去執行。
這就是修行人的風範,不允許自己有過失。人要好命,自身的道德要先建起來。
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Master Dai Hu held his 34th Meal Session on 3rd August 2017, with the aim to teach everyone how spiritual entities (inner and outer) can affect our every thought and action, therefore our destiny as well.
One lady participant presented a bouquet of colorful flowers to Master Dai Hu. He said everything constituted the Dharma, and went on to explain the which flower colour represent Protection from Disaster, Universal love, and subjugation of all evil.
Because man is losing his morals, the world has descended into chaos.
One participant said she was a Buddhist, prompting Master to ask why she did not greet him with her palm clasped, since she said she was a Buddhist?
Why should we all do that? Why should we learn to greet our masters or seniors? The reason is because such etiquette refrain the arrogance in us.
As long as we remain arrogant, our hearts will remain conquered by the Mara.
Highlights of the Session:
1. We are not alone. There is always "somebody" watching.
2. A room with messy Feng Shui will cause depression to its occupant.
3. Master praised the female participant for heeding his advice from the last workshop to trim her tresses.
4. Keeping late nights will increase your risk of a fatty liver.
5. All religions are neutral. The problem lies in man. A righteous person will propagate and practice the right Dharma, while an non-virtuous person will turn it evil.
6. If we hope for our karmic debtors to forgive us, we must first lead the way: forgive others who has wronged us.
7. It is wiser to make one new friend, than a new enemy.
8. Master Dai Hu asked all participants to write 2 Chinese characters: (聖) Sage and (魔) Mara, and further asked them to explain the essences of these 2 characters. Master followed up with his own analysis.
9. How can you tell if your own karmic debtors have left you?
10. Master provided guidance to one participant why she must acknowledge her birth father.
11. How could you help an elderly suffering from dementia hear the Dharma?
12. Why did one suffer from a hunched back?
13. Why do a person have perpetual skin disease?
14. Why does the child suffer from cleft lips?
15. Why does one suffer from the disease of soft bones and cartilage?
16. Some people cannot succeed in life because they encounter spiritual disturbances and cannot concentrate at work.
17. The best way to educate a child is not by physical presence, but by imbuing him or her with wisdom.
18. Why are the wealthy ones so rich?
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That night, one of the participants registered for the meal session but ended up "disappearing". She did not respond to SMSes but finally admitted that she's fearful of the spiritual unknown, and with added pressure at her work, had wanted to skip this session.
Master reprimanded her of not being responsible, and not sparing a thought for his assistant. She did not admit her mistake honestly at the start of the session until Master asked her. She then mumbled some reasons incoherently.
Master pointed out that people who tell lies and maintain an unkempt appearance are especially at risk of attracting spiritual disturbance. On that night, this lady exhibited a similar state of behavior.
Master gave this lady a chance to speak the truth, and reminded her not to weave any tales, and be forthright to offer an apology. However, she is strong-willed, and unwilling to realize her mistake, insisting that she was not lying. Therefore, Master asked her to leave the session.
3 days later, this lady tried to phone Master to offer her apology as she realized she was in the wrong.
Master often said that his main objective in organizing such complimentary meal sessions is to give back to the society. He is not a fool who dishes out advice to any Tom, Dick or Harry freely. As Master made a vow to propagate the Dharma and Chinese Metaphysics concurrently to benefit all sentient beings, he must make time to act on his vow.
This is the style of a spiritual cultivator: Never allowing oneself to err on intent. If you want a good life, begin by building good morals.
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上次直播只講了鐵則一,這次直播我和奧客從第二個鐵則開始聊。
鐵則二:永遠不要誠實或是不誠實地跟你的現任伴侶揭露你過去和幾個女人上床或是你的性愛細節。(NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.)
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Rollo Tomassi,被公認為紅藥丸教父之一的男人,他年輕的時候是個搖滾明星,也是搞藝術的,所以打滾在女人之間,在這中間也有許多男性在感情上遇到困難與糾結都去找他,讓他看盡了男女之間的真實動態。
本次直播我和奧客會聊聊在他著名的著作 The Rational Male 裡面有提到紅藥丸覺醒九個鐵則。
1. 框架就是一切,永遠意識到目前你正在掌控的框架平衡。永遠掌控這框架,但並不要弄得自己像是個操控狂。(Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.)
2. 永遠不要誠實或是不誠實地跟你的現任伴侶揭露你過去和幾個女人上床或是你的性愛細節。(NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.)
3. 任何女人如果刻意地讓你等待性愛,或是她透過行動讓你等待性愛,那麼這性愛就不值得你等。(Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.)
4. 在任何情況下都不要跟還沒跟你結婚的女人同居,或是你們在未來六個月都還沒規劃要結婚的女人同居。(NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.)
5. 永遠不要讓女人控制生育。(NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.)
6. 女人沒有辦法用男人期待女人愛男人的方式,來愛男人。(Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.)
7. 如果關係破裂,開發新歡永遠比拯救彌補破裂的舊愛好。(It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.)
8. 永遠讓女人去思索為什麼她不跟你打炮,你絕對不要去幫她思索這件事情。(Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuxk you, never do it for her.)
9. 在任何情形下面都不要自我矮化。(Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance.)
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--
Rollo Tomassi,被公認為紅藥丸教父之一的男人,他年輕的時候是個搖滾明星,也是搞藝術的,所以打滾在女人之間,在這中間也有許多男性在感情上遇到困難與糾結都去找他,讓他看盡了男女之間的真實動態。
本次直播我和奧客會聊聊在他著名的著作 The Rational Male 裡面有提到紅藥丸覺醒九個鐵則。
1. 框架就是一切,永遠意識到目前你正在掌控的框架平衡。永遠掌控這框架,但並不要弄得自己像是個操控狂。(Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.)
2. 永遠不要誠實或是不誠實地跟你的現任伴侶揭露你過去和幾個女人上床或是你的性愛細節。(NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.)
3. 任何女人如果刻意地讓你等待性愛,或是她透過行動讓你等待性愛,那麼這性愛就不值得你等。(Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.)
4. 在任何情況下都不要跟還沒跟你結婚的女人同居,或是你們在未來六個月都還沒規劃要結婚的女人同居。(NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.)
5. 永遠不要讓女人控制生育。(NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.)
6. 女人沒有辦法用男人期待女人愛男人的方式,來愛男人。(Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.)
7. 如果關係破裂,開發新歡永遠比拯救彌補破裂的舊愛好。(It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.)
8. 永遠讓女人去思索為什麼她不跟你打炮,你絕對不要去幫她思索這件事情。(Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuxk you, never do it for her.)
9. 在任何情形下面都不要自我矮化。(Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance.)
--
那個奧客的頻道
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqEzIi3BnHyTis0NW-6-h2A
加入「選擇你的現實2.0」請點此
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「Game出你的社交圈」電子書免費下載
https://abovelight.com/join-ab-community/
提昇的你社交自信線上課程「夢想生活 - 全世界都是你的社交圈」
https://abovelight.com/dream-life-social/
AB的異想世界黃金訂閱
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Rollo Tomassi - The Rational Male
https://amzn.to/2Zvmyia
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