【用細節贏得成功】(English writing below)
Win Success With Details
上星期六，我Youtube上了新影片：為什麼他比你成功？（https://youtu.be/YZ-GgOXlDKc）
那直播是我在2017年做的。還記得那天見了兩位客人，當晚1:10am三更半夜，興致勃勃地在沒有人的購物中心開直播。
都工作一整天了，我哪來的熱血沸騰呢？
因為那時不久前，看了這成龍2013年開講的影片，了解了他的奮鬥史，心中不停地為他所說的話歡呼及鼓掌。
這麼簡單的道理，三歲小孩都懂，可你知道嗎，很多人根本做不到。
大家的家庭背景差不多，學歷也差不多，為什麼有的人就能跑在那麽前面，有的差那麼遠？
我見的客人當中，很多人敗給了欲望，但更多的人是敗給了細節和傲慢，無論是修行上還是生活上。
這麼多年，通過我的文章和影片，我都苦口婆心地在告訴我的讀者、客人和小朋友們，因為我不想你迷上玄學，而忽略真正讓你失敗的原因。可能你聽了，只會覺得我苛刻，但你有沒有想過，可能因為是你不願意為更大的成功去奮鬥？
還是你甘心，被圍繞著你身邊的業障給阻礙呢？
成功的人，不會找藉口，不會只是在臉書上潑婦罵街。
他們只會找辦法，虛心向好的師父學。
有的人只研究八字風水，卻忽略了因果論。他們的盲點是以為八字和風水造就了一個人的個性。事實上，一個人的個性造就了他的八字，而因此引來了那樣的風水。
成龍是一個大福之人，因為前世、今世，他都不斷地種了很多的福因，利益了百千萬的人，所以才有大富貴大桃花之命。全世界最有名的華人，無論什麼膚色的人都認識的，應該就只有成龍了。
看看現實生活中成龍的事蹟，你就會明白自己哪裡不夠努力了。
當然，成功不只是名成利就，還有婚姻、家庭裡及宗教。這些一樣都是需要我們用心去經營，以細節展示我們對他人的關懷和在乎。
我每天都想改變我的人生。我當然也有怕的時候，也有自信零蛋的時候。但是，我最討厭的就是輸給我自己，我不要有遺憾。
成龍的開講很精彩，這裡只是一小段，想看完整影片，請到官方Youtube頻道：https://youtu.be/jgWWd-8G2mc
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Last Saturday, I uploaded a new video on my Youtube channel: Why is he more successful than you?（https://youtu.be/YZ-GgOXlDKc）
I did that Live in 2017. I met two clients that day, and it was at 1:10am in the middle of the night when I enthusiastically commenced my Live in an empty shopping mall.
After a whole day of work, where did I find that blood-racing energy from?
That was because not long ago, I watched a video of Jackie Chan's lecture from 2013. As I learnt about his story of struggles, my heart was cheering and applauding at his words.
A three-year-old child will have no problem understanding such a simple theory, but do you know that not many people can put that theory into application.
Have you think about this? Most of our family backgrounds are probably similar, and perhaps our education too. But why is that some people can be so far ahead in this race of Life, and some people are so far behind?
In the clients I see, many people lost to their desires, yet even more people are defeated by details and their self-inflated egos, be it in their spiritual cultivation or in their lives.
For so many years, through my writings and videos, I have been relentless in telling this to my readers, clients and students. Because I do not wish for you to get superstitious over Chinese Metaphysics and gloss over the true reason for your failure.
Perhaps after listening to me, you will only think of me as strict and harsh. But have you ever realised that it might be you who do not wish to fight more for your success?
And willingly be hindered by the karmic obstacles, be it people or things around you?
Successful people do not find excuses or rant on Facebook like a fish wife shouting abuse on the street.
They will only look for solutions and humbly learn from a good Master.
Many people only care to study Bazi and Feng Shui, but neglect the Law of Cause and Effect. It is our character that create our Bazi and Feng Shui, not the other way round.
Jackie Chan is a person of great fortune because in his previous lives and current life, he is constantly sowing the seeds of good fortune, benefiting thousands and millions of people. Thus, in his Bazi, he is befitting of a life of great prosperity and Peach Blossom luck.
He is probably the most well-known Chinese, recognised by people of various skin colours all over the world.
Study the real-life doings of Jackie Chan and you will understand how you are not diligent enough in cultivating yourself.
Of course, success isn't just about career and wealth accomplishments. It also include your marriage, family and religion. All these require us to pour our hearts in them, and demonstrate our love and care towards others through the small details.
Every day I am thinking of how to do better in my life. Sure there will be moments of fear and zero confidence. But what I hate most is losing to myself and have regrets.
Jackie Chan's lecture is brilliant. This is only a small excerpt. To watch the full video, please visit the official Youtube channel：https://youtu.be/jgWWd-8G2mc
