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Losing all hope was freedom

電影《Fight Club》有句對白，就像午夜夢迴一樣，久不久就會在腦袋中聽到：「And then, something happened. I let go. Lost in oblivion. Dark and silent and complete. I found freedom. Losing all hope was freedom.」

但最初記得這一句，其實是因為一個叫做「LAHWF」的youtube channel。在現在的標準來看，影片內容其實遠遠不夠爆，但對於當年還青澀怕羞的佬編來說，卻或多或少有些崇拜及佩服。

大部份的影片，其實都是些在有點尷尬但無傷大雅的影片，例如在街上播Disco Music然後跳awkward舞、借電話然後扮跑走、無啦啦問女店員係咪Single、周街問路但又要同人唱反調、找人high five但完全high five唔到等等。

Losing All Hope Was Freedom，大槪就是這些影片的母題。没有偶像包袱，就不會再怕羞，不會再在意其他人點睇；没有期望，就没有失望。

可能你會話，做人如果無夢想，同條鹹魚有咩分別呀？但有時，就係要放低所有舊有的想法，才會有新的目標，新的希望。

不要忘記，《Fight Club》裏還有另外一句：「it's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything」

原文刊於ACOO

P.S. 這個專欄將在此篇後結束，感謝ACOO同事一直的支持和包容。有緣再會。

明年我想要用比較輕鬆的方式做蒙特梭利懶人包，長輩圖對爺奶有幫助嗎？過陣子來針對這21點分別寫文讓大家更有概念吧～你們會來看嗎🙋

其中第21點，是我最喜歡的部分【媽媽～幫我，讓我能自己做】先前也有寫過專文跟懶人包分享：https://pse.is/HTNUR

📍21句蒙特梭利👉
1、誰若不能獨立，誰就談不上自由。
Who can not be independent, who can not talk about freedom.

2、兒童教育是人類最重要的一個問題。
Children's education is one of the most important problems of human beings.

3、教師必須為形成較好人類而獻出一切。
Teachers must give everything for the good man.

4、建立在規則上的自由，才是真正的自由！
The freedom to set up in the rules is the real freedom!

5、兒童對活動的需要幾乎比食物的需要更為強烈。
Children's need for activities is much stronger than the need for food.

6、兒童心靈上的許多烙印，都是成人無意間烙下的。
Many of the children's minds are branded with the intention of an adult.

7、激發生命，讓生命自由發展，這是教育者的首要任務。
Stimulate the life, let the life free development, this is the educator's primary mission.

8、教育體系是以感官基礎，以思考為過程，以自由為目的。
The educational system is based on the senses, taking the thinking as the process and the freedom as the goal.

9、兒童應該得到成人的愛，而不是成人忙於生活所殘餘的愛。
Children should be loved by the adult, not by the love of the adult life.

10、教育所要求的只有一項：通過孩子的內在力量來達到自我的學習。
Education requires only one: through the child's inner strength to achieve self learning.

11、兒童的一切教育都必須遵循一個原則，即幫助孩子身心自然的發展。
All children's education must follow a principle, that is, to help children develop physically and mentally.

12、我看到了，我忘記了；我聽到了，我記住了；我做過了，我理解了。
I saw it, I forgot, I heard it, I remember, I did it, I understand.

13、學習正確答案將幫助孩子完成學業，但學會如何學習是為一生做準備。
Learning the correct answer will help children to complete their studies, but learn how to learn is to prepare for life.

14、兒童的進步不是取決於年齡，而是取決於能夠自由地觀看他周圍的一切。
The progress of a child is not determined by age, but by the freedom to see everything around him.

15、我們對兒童所做的一切，都會開花結果，不僅影響他一生，也決定他一生。
We have done everything for children, will bear fruit, not only affect his life, also decided his life.

16、當兒童還沒有發展起控制能力的時候，「讓兒童想幹什麼就幹什麼」是與自由觀念相違背的。
When children do not have the ability to control the development of the time, "let the children want to do anything" is contrary to the concept of freedom.

17、教育就是激發生命，充實生命，協助孩子們用自己的力量生存下去，並幫助他們發展這種精神。
Education is to inspire life, to enrich life, to help the children with their own strength to survive, and to help them develop the spirit.

18、道德的營養不良和精神的中毒對人的心靈的危害，正如身體的營養不良對於身體健康的危害一樣。
Moral malnutrition and mental intoxication are harmful to one's heart, just as the body's nutrition is harmful to the health of the body.

19、兒童有着他自己的人格，他自身具有創造精神的美和尊嚴。這種美和尊嚴是永遠不能磨滅的，所以他的純潔而非常敏感的心靈需要我們最審慎的愛護。
Children have their own personality, he has created the spirit of the United States and dignity. The beauty and dignity is never forgotten, so his purity and very sensitive heart we need the most prudent care.

20、我們都知道，兒童發展的時期是一生最重要的時期。道德的營養不良和精神的中毒對人的心靈的危害正如身體的營養不良對於身體健康的危害一樣。所以，兒童教育是人類展重要的一個問題。
We all know that the period of children's development is the most important period of life. Moral malnutrition and mental intoxication are harmful to one's heart as well as the health of the body. So, children's education is an important issue of human development.

21、請幫助我，讓我自己做。
Help me do it by myself.

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裘莉醫師：割乳後　罹乳癌機率從87%降至5%
2013年05月14日16:04

現年37歲美國好萊塢女星安潔莉娜裘莉（Angelina Jolie），今日在《紐約時報》投書表示，為了降低罹患乳癌和卵巢癌的風險，進行了割除雙乳的手術。而裘莉也在文中提到，她的主治醫師向她表示，割乳後罹患乳癌的機率為從87%，降至5%。

另外，裘莉也提到，整個手術療程為時3個月，分為3階段進行。其中有一個手術階段是將引流管插入乳房，她直呼：「好像在拍科幻片一樣。」裘莉也說，手術最後一個階段就是將填充物植入胸部，她表示接下來需要花幾年時間來做復健，「但相信結果會非常美好」。

切除雙乳防癌／安潔莉娜裘莉：無損我的女性特質
2013-05-14 Web only 作者：吳凱琳編譯

美國女星安潔莉娜‧裘莉（Angelina Jolie ）14日投書《紐約時報》，表示為了預防乳癌的發生，進行預防性手術，切除乳房。

一切都源自於她母親早逝帶給她的傷痛。

她母親因罹患癌症，年僅56歲便離開人世，「我的孩子們常問我，我會不會也像自己的母親那樣早地離開他們，我總是告訴他們別擔心，」但事實上，安潔莉娜‧裘莉心裡明白，經過醫學檢查，證實她體內帶有BRCA1 基因。女性若遺傳到這種基因，罹患乳癌和卵巢癌的機率將大增。安潔莉娜‧裘莉的醫師預估，她罹患乳癌和卵巢癌的機率分別為87％與50％。

於是，她做出了常人難以想像的重大決定：切除雙乳，預防乳癌發生。

整體療程開始於今年2月2日，歷經乳房組織切除與義乳重建等手術，直到4月底，總計9星期的療程全部結束。安潔莉娜‧裘莉形容，整個過程就像是科幻電影的場景般，休息幾天之後，便可立即恢復正常生活。

更幸運的是，她的乳癌病發機率從87％驟降為5％。她也沒有因為乳房切除手術而感到任何的不適應，「我並沒有因此感覺自己不再像是女人，我反而覺得自己做了很勇敢的決定，而這個決定絲毫未減損我的女性特質。」

在文章中，她特別感謝人生的伴侶布萊德‧彼特（Brad Pitt ），「在經歷手術過程的每分每秒，他都一直陪在我身旁。我們倆都認為這是對我們的家庭最正確的決定，這個決定也讓我們彼此更為親密。」

文章最後她特別提到，之所以決定公開自己的隱私，目的是期望幫助更多女性選擇正確的醫療方式，遠離癌症威脅。根據世界衛生組織統計，每年死於乳癌的女性高達45.8萬人，或許她的經驗可以提供參考。不過，究竟預防性手術是否是治療癌症的最恰當方式，恐怕有待醫療專業的評估。（吳凱琳編譯）

安潔莉娜‧裘莉投書《紐約時報》「My Medical Choice」全文

My Medical Choice
By ANGELINA JOLIE
Published: May 14, 2013

MY MOTHER fought cancer for almost a decade and died at 56. She held out long enough to meet the first of her grandchildren and to hold them in her arms. But my other children will never have the chance to know her and experience how loving and gracious she was.

We often speak of “Mommy’s mommy,” and I find myself trying to explain the illness that took her away from us. They have asked if the same could happen to me. I have always told them not to worry, but the truth is I carry a “faulty” gene, BRCA1, which sharply increases my risk of developing breast cancer and ovarian cancer.

My doctors estimated that I had an 87 percent risk of breast cancer and a 50 percent risk of ovarian cancer, although the risk is different in the case of each woman.

Only a fraction of breast cancers result from an inherited gene mutation. Those with a defect in BRCA1 have a 65 percent risk of getting it, on average.

Once I knew that this was my reality, I decided to be proactive and to minimize the risk as much I could. I made a decision to have a preventive double mastectomy. I started with the breasts, as my risk of breast cancer is higher than my risk of ovarian cancer, and the surgery is more complex.

On April 27, I finished the three months of medical procedures that the mastectomies involved. During that time I have been able to keep this private and to carry on with my work.

But I am writing about it now because I hope that other women can benefit from my experience. Cancer is still a word that strikes fear into people’s hearts, producing a deep sense of powerlessness. But today it is possible to find out through a blood test whether you are highly susceptible to breast and ovarian cancer, and then take action.

My own process began on Feb. 2 with a procedure known as a “nipple delay,” which rules out disease in the breast ducts behind the nipple and draws extra blood flow to the area. This causes some pain and a lot of bruising, but it increases the chance of saving the nipple.

Two weeks later I had the major surgery, where the breast tissue is removed and temporary fillers are put in place. The operation can take eight hours. You wake up with drain tubes and expanders in your breasts. It does feel like a scene out of a science-fiction film. But days after surgery you can be back to a normal life.

Nine weeks later, the final surgery is completed with the reconstruction of the breasts with an implant. There have been many advances in this procedure in the last few years, and the results can be beautiful.

I wanted to write this to tell other women that the decision to have a mastectomy was not easy. But it is one I am very happy that I made. My chances of developing breast cancer have dropped from 87 percent to under 5 percent. I can tell my children that they don’t need to fear they will lose me to breast cancer.

It is reassuring that they see nothing that makes them uncomfortable. They can see my small scars and that’s it. Everything else is just Mommy, the same as she always was. And they know that I love them and will do anything to be with them as long as I can. On a personal note, I do not feel any less of a woman. I feel empowered that I made a strong choice that in no way diminishes my femininity.

I am fortunate to have a partner, Brad Pitt, who is so loving and supportive. So to anyone who has a wife or girlfriend going through this, know that you are a very important part of the transition. Brad was at the Pink Lotus Breast Center, where I was treated, for every minute of the surgeries. We managed to find moments to laugh together. We knew this was the right thing to do for our family and that it would bring us closer. And it has.

For any woman reading this, I hope it helps you to know you have options. I want to encourage every woman, especially if you have a family history of breast or ovarian cancer, to seek out the information and medical experts who can help you through this aspect of your life, and to make your own informed choices.

I acknowledge that there are many wonderful holistic doctors working on alternatives to surgery. My own regimen will be posted in due course on the Web site of the Pink Lotus Breast Center. I hope that this will be helpful to other women.

Breast cancer alone kills some 458,000 people each year, according to the World Health Organization, mainly in low- and middle-income countries. It has got to be a priority to ensure that more women can access gene testing and lifesaving preventive treatment, whatever their means and background, wherever they live. The cost of testing for BRCA1 and BRCA2, at more than $3,000 in the United States, remains an obstacle for many women.

I choose not to keep my story private because there are many women who do not know that they might be living under the shadow of cancer. It is my hope that they, too, will be able to get gene tested, and that if they have a high risk they, too, will know that they have strong options.

Life comes with many challenges. The ones that should not scare us are the ones we can take on and take control of.

Angelina Jolie is an actress and director.

►《These Days》原版為英國電音組合Rudimental的作品，邀請歌手Jess Glynne以及說唱Macklemore、Dan Caplen共同完成。mv發行於2018年1月25日，訴說這一對已經分手，哪怕知道難以和好如初卻依舊懷念昔日美好時光的情侶。
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►RoadTrip是一個英國倫敦男子團體，成立於07/29/2015，在youtube上翻唱眾多當紅歌曲，其中他們有著高產量、高品質的水準已累積了許多粉絲數量。團體內分別有五位成員Andy Fowler、Rye Beaumont、Mikey Cobban、Jack Duff、Brooklyn Wyatt，年齡大約是23歲至20歲之間，真的是年輕新勢力！台灣知道他們的朋友們並不多，是時候發現他們了！
如果還不認識這個團體的話，快來聽聽他們許多精品翻唱吧！
也許聽著聽著你會愛上這個年輕有活力有實力的男孩們喔～
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原版前奏便有一段獨白：
“I know you moved onto someone new
我聽聞你已與另一個他開始了新的戀情，
Hope life is beautiful
願你的生活幸福安好。
You were the life of me to find my truth
因為是你讓我發覺了生活的美好與真諦，
I just wanna say, thank you
所以如今衷心地跟你說一句：「謝謝」。”

這段獨白直接為這首歌開門見山地定下了基調，
明白告訴大家這確實又是一首關於“分手離別”的歌曲，
但是並非要抱怨埋怨對方的種種不是，
也不是要自我懺悔錯過了對方，
只是坦白、冷靜的敘述了一段情感的結束，
並非你我的過錯也無關外在的因素，
只是隨著時光的流逝，兩顆心不再緊緊相依，
不再開始為彼此牽掛，只剩下漸行漸遠⋯⋯，
這其實並不是一種奇怪的現象，其實非常普遍，
只是許多人並未發覺，
進而編織了各式的理由或是藉口去解釋這個現象，
然後分手就變成了一場「災難」，嚴重的更是一發不可收拾。
其實只是時光帶走了彼此的愛，誰都不是錯的那一個人，
這不禁讓我回想起電影《愛的萬物論》（《The Theory of Everything》）
電影中女主角Jane Hawking在歷經了許多時光流逝、生活困境後，
對Hawking的愛逐漸消失的情節，
其實雙方都沒有錯，只是錯的是時間以及生活，
*當Jane無奈地坦白說出【我愛過你，但我已經盡力了。】
哪怕再堅貞不渝的愛情，也有無能為力的時候。
歌曲在此基礎上，更加強了美好的部分，
就是哪怕最後分道揚鑣，可是彼此共度的美好時光依舊不變的想法，
我常常在想，如果【離別】的時候人們都能想到那些美好的回憶，
而不是糾結在痛苦的離別該有多好，也許那些傷痛都會減少一些⋯⋯。
這種想法不應僅限於愛情，任何情節上的分別都應該如此，
雖然說得輕巧，若想要做到其實並不簡單，
可是我們只要記住，「天下沒有不散的宴席」，
所以當我們面對離別是，腦海中多讓美好的回憶轉動，
想想對方讓你在人生旅途中學會了什麼、獲得了什麼⋯⋯吧！

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《關於Joanna王若琳最新BOB MUSIC專輯》
超級跳躍的節奏遇上快樂到欠扁的旋律，
科學實驗般的音樂化學，白痴！認真！熱血！脫線！
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Joanna王若琳即將發行的新專輯《BOB MUSIC》，音樂中充滿她無厘頭的幻想畫面。專輯名稱之所以取名為「BOB」，是因­­為該英文名字含有「點頭」的意思，符合這張專輯中4拍鮮明的節奏，曲風輕快、歡愉，­令­人也跟著想手舞足蹈。這次她再度擔任專輯製作人，並一手包辦MV編劇和視覺企劃。­此外­，Joanna這次還找來兩位高中時的好朋友分別MV影像與美術，因為「都有相­同高中­時的記憶與音樂與美術喜好。」她表示這張專輯的概念與發想，都以「女高中生」­的角度出­發，延伸出許多有趣的幻想情節。