“I got hit.”
I believe that's the last thing any of us would want to hear from a friend/ family who got caught in a traffic accident.
Reality is, if you've been on the roads long enough, there will come a point where you'll realise accidents are inevitable, just a matter of whether it's a serious one or not.
I've had my fair share too.
In any accident, however big or small, it's important to remain calm at all times and take note of the key things you’d need to do.
✔ Check for injuries. If you notice any, call 995 immediately.
✔ Take photos of the accident scene without moving any of the vehicles involved. This is important for insurance companies and the police to help determine the cause and impact of the accident.
✔ Exchange particulars of of drivers/ riders involved. Note down the name, contact, address, vehicle registration plate details. Do also take note of the time, date and location of the accident as this would be required in the police report that you make.
✔ Regardless of whether there are any claims/ injury in an accident, you must report it to your insurance provider within 24 hours from the time of accident. This is to ensure your interests are protected at all times. If you fail to do so, not only will you stand to be at the disadvantage, you may risk losing your NCD too.
Make sure you keep yourself and your family safe on the roads with comprehensive insurance like what DirectAsia Insurance offers.
You can tailor your policy with different optional benefits and they even have a dedicated specialist to attend to your policy needs so do check them out and stay safe wherever you are!
Always.
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同時也有212部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過2萬的網紅帕克,也在其Youtube影片中提到,#奧運#運動#選手#帕運 讓青春的肉體適時解放也是需要的吧? #有觀眾指出, 45萬個套子應為發放數量 而非總共使用量,在此更正。 2:27為Ryan lochte 筆誤 「註」: 封面以及影片的出現的圖片 除非特別標示,否則 皆為是示意圖,並非當事者本人 另外, 書籍的網址如下 The Se...
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Scenario A or Scenario B - how is it like in your household?
Are you aware of what your child is doing online?
How do we start conversations about pornography with our kids?
What can we parents do when it comes to cyberbullying?
How can we foster a positive digital culture at home?
Truth be told, I don't always know what the kids are doing online. Neither do I have all the answers or solutions when it comes to excessive gaming, pornography, cyberbullying or even talking to strangers online.
As parents, I believe in not only taking the extra steps to educate our kids of the potential dangers online, but also in keeping ourselves up to date in today's digital age. 😊 It's never too late to learn and pick up new ideas together with the kids. If you wish to find out more on how to talk to your kids on topics such as pornography online, e-gaming and online harms, sign up for the FREE virtual TOUCH Cyber Wellness Symposium happening 25 Sep 2021!
Psst… If you have teens like me, they can also sign up for workshops by Instagram and TikTok to learn about online safety and content creation on these platforms! And yes, everything is FREE - but you gotta register first! Reserve your virtual slot here: https://bit.ly/touchcyberwellness2021.
Let’s develop a strong, positive digital culture with our kids at home together! 💪
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【一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排】
All Failures & Lacks Are The Best Things to Happen to Us
三個月前,收到來自台灣客人的這封電郵時,開心和心酸交織著在心裡。
開心,因為這是一年前通過Zoom視訊的客人。他居然在我們看八字的一週年,特地寫了封感謝函給我,真有心!
心酸,因為他寫在電郵裡的低落心情,我完完全全明白。
他的經歷,是我的曾經。我當初也是很難,很久才能走出來。
有一回,我為一位芳華正茂的女子批八字時,她很用心的寫下我說的話。
論寫筆記的完整,她是我客人當中的佼佼者。
寫到一半,我注意到她的右手開始微微顫抖。我以為是空調的風太大了,冷到她,便問她要不要披巾。
她說,是她的焦慮症發作。
「我沒在兇你,也沒對你嚴厲,你為何突然焦慮?」
「我.....打從今年疫情打亂了我的計畫,我就一直很焦慮。我覺得我很沒用,同學們都前進了,只有我現在什麼都不是,亂糟糟的。我就一直很緊張,萬一我一直都是這樣,怎麼辦?」
說著,她眼眶一紅,眼淚像斷了線的珍珠鏈似的灑下來。
我的媽呀!是我的樣子長得很催淚,還是我的聲音聽起來很虐心?怎麼客人,不分男女老少,東南西北,看到我好像都很容易哭?
我抓起一張紙巾遞給她。
「所以,我不是來了嗎?你來找我,就是要問個明路,而你很幸運那麼快就看到我啦!你看你的筆記寫得多工整,多齊全。我很多客人都不如你啊!我今天的工作,就是來給你答案的。我沒有把握,也不會接你這份差事。我接了,就代表還可以補救。你照著我的指示去做,一定柳暗花明又一村。」
又另一回,一位四十多歲的媽媽請我看兒子的八字。
我在批著八字時,這位媽媽點頭認同,然後就聲淚俱下。
我轉頭看著她沈默不語的先生。我說錯了什麼嗎?太太哭成淚人,你怎麼連紙巾也不拿給她啊?
「我是個沒有用的母親,很不稱職的母親。我沒有辦法教好孩子。我很愛他,可是很多時候我都不知道要怎麼做,我就會對他發脾氣,說狠話,過後我又後悔。我忍下來,可是後來還是會一樣!」
我沒打斷她,等她的哭聲逐漸小聲後,我柔柔的說:「我來啦!我坐在你前面了。你已經看到我,就是有辦法了。你知道你自己不行,會去找辦法,就代表你願意去學習做個好媽媽啊!」
我把紙巾遞給她,再說:「不要哭了,要不然,別人看了以為是我不要借你錢,才把你弄得那麼傷心。」
曾幾何時,我們都會以外在所擁有的,來定義自己的人生是否值得自己喜歡。
從原生家庭、樣貌、健康、身型、智力、天賦等,到後來的學歷、友情、事業、財富、婚姻、子女......
哪一樣沒有,而偏偏是我們最想要的,我們就會認定自己失敗的一塌糊塗。
我認為這就是普通教育最大的問題所在。父母老師都是這樣把我們「分門別類」的。值不值得父母疼愛或向親朋戚友炫耀,也離不開那幾點。
久而久之,我們也只會以「成功」來定義自己是否有價值,甚至來衡量自己是否有活下去的勇氣。
我比較喜歡佛法的定義。我們每個人都是一尊佛,六道眾生皆有佛性,只因一時的迷,因此墮落在苦輪不停的輪迴。
可正因為我們有佛性,我們都有無窮無盡的可能。每個人的內在有著很強大的力量,等著我們遇到明師後,去發掘、探索和了解。
而這天生俱來的力量,就是你改命立命的資本。
如果人生順風順水,我們永遠不會想要出離,誤把人間當極樂,所以一定要有苦,我們才會意識到,為什麼我們會在這鬼地方?要怎麼樣才可以離開這鬼地方去到極樂?
反過來,我們都應該感恩自己遇到的挫折,因為從這些苦中,我們才能生出智慧。
沒有一個八字是完美的。一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排,如此你才會有出離心,返本歸源。
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3 months ago, when I received this email from my Taiwan client, there was this feeling of bittersweetness.
I was happy because this was the client I did a Zoom consultation last June. He sent me this email on the one-year anniversary date of our Zoom call, to express his gratitude. How sweet!
On the other hand, I could relate to the emotional turmoil he felt at that point in his life.
His experience was my past. It also took me a very long time to walk out from my gloominess.
Once, I analysed the Bazi of a very young lady. She was meticulously jotting down notes as I spoke.
Her detailed note-taking skills easily took the top place among my clients.
Halfway through, I noticed her right hand was trembling slightly. I thought it was due to the cold draft from the air conditioning, so I asked if she needed a shawl.
She replied that it was her anxiety disorder acting up.
“I was not fierce or strict with you. What caused your sudden anxiety?”
“I…ever since the pandemic disrupted my plans, I have been in this state of anxiety. I kept feeling useless. All my classmates are progressing expect me. I have nothing to show for and my life is in a mess. I am very anxious. What if I continue to be like this? What am I going to do?”
As she spoke, her eyes turned red and tears started rolling down like a broken strand of pearl necklace scattering onto the ground.
Oh dear! I am beginning to wonder if I have a tear-jerker face or a heart-tormenting voice. Why do my clients, regardless of gender and age, North South or East West, seem to cry easily when they see me?
I grabbed a piece of tissue and handed it to her.
“Ain’t I here already? You came to me for a roadmap and you are very lucky to see me so soon. Look at how precise and neat your notes are! Many of my clients aren’t even on par with you. My job today is to give you answers. If I didn’t have the confidence, I would not have taken up your request. Now that I did, that means there is still hope. If you follow my instructions, you will see things looking up very soon.”
On another occasion, a mother in her forties came to me for her son’s Bazi consultation.
As I was analysing, the mother nodded her head in agreement. The next thing I know, she started weeping loudly.
I turned to look at her husband, who had been silent all along. Did I say something wrong? And hello, your wife was crying. Why weren’t you gentleman enough to give her a tissue paper?
“I am a useless mother. I am incompetent. I do not know how to teach my son well. I love my son very much. But many times, I do not know what to do and thus I flare up at him and speak harshly. I always regret afterwards. I tried enduring but it still ends badly!”
I did not interrupt her and waited for her cries to soften, before speaking gently, “I’m here! I’m already sitting in front of you. You are looking at me now and that means help is here. You know that you are incompetent, so you went looking for solutions. That means you are willing to learn how to be a better mother!”
I handed a piece of tissue and said, “Don’t cry anymore, otherwise, other patrons will think that it’s because I refuse to lend you money.”
Since young, we have been using external possessions to define whether our lives are worth liking.
The family we are born into, our looks, health, body shape, intellect, talents, and then we move on to compare our academics, friendships, career, wealth, marriage and children.
If we are lacking in the area we covet most, we grade our lives as a failure.
I think this is the biggest problem in societal education. Our parents and teachers categorized us that way. Whether we as children are worthy of their love and bragging, depends on the few points above too.
Thus over time, we can only use the term “success” to determine whether we are of value, for some people, whether they should live on to take their next breath.
I very much prefer the definition in Buddhism. We are all Buddhas. Each and every sentient being in the six realms has a Buddha nature in them. But they got lost momentarily and fell into the endless wheel of reincarnation.
Yet, because of our Buddha nature, we have an unlimited source of potential. Every one of us has a very powerful strength inside us. It is just waiting for us to meet an accomplished teacher, so that we have the tools to explore and understand it:
And this strength that we are born with is the capital for us to transform and establish our own destiny.
If life is smooth-sailing, we would never want to leave and would mistake this mortal realm for Pureland. Thus, we all need sufferings, to realise that we should break out of this hell of a place. There has to be a better world somewhere. So how we get there?
We should, in fact, be grateful for all the setbacks and failures we have. Because it is from these sufferings, our wisdom arise:
No single Bazi is perfect. Every failure and lack we experience is the best arrangement for us, so that the heart of renunciation will arise in us and we will return to where we came from.
what date is it 在 帕克 Youtube 的精選貼文
#奧運#運動#選手#帕運
讓青春的肉體適時解放也是需要的吧?
#有觀眾指出,
45萬個套子應為發放數量
而非總共使用量,在此更正。
2:27為Ryan lochte 筆誤
「註」:
封面以及影片的出現的圖片
除非特別標示,否則
皆為是示意圖,並非當事者本人
另外,
書籍的網址如下
The Secret Olympian:
The Inside Story of the Olympic Experience
https://reurl.cc/4aMqN3
_
0:00開頭
0:12正文
4:35影片贊助者
_
這部影片特別感謝:
帕克的贊助會員
呂小冷 熱情贊助
帕克IG:
https://www.instagram.com/pocket_pedia
references:
1.套套使用量
Rio 2016's record-breaking haul: 42 condoms per athlete
2.Olympics 2016: Triple The Condoms!
3.Lakatos:這麼荒唐,這輩子沒見過
Here's What Sex Is Really Like In The Olympic Village
4.自己送上門,怎麼拒絕
Biggest partiers at the Olympics? Curlers!
5.賽前一炮,幫助拿金牌
Olympic Village Sex Secrets Revealed:
What's Really Going on at Rio's 2016 Games
6.奧運打炮比例
Will you still medal in the morning?
7.喝醉後,隔天要參加記者會
Sex-crazed athletes run amok in Olympic Village and women's
soccer team 'partied with Vince Vaughn, stayed up all night
and went on Today show drunk' after 2008 gold:
Confessions of US soccer star Hope Solo
8.APP使用量暴增
Apparently Olympic Athletes Are Looking to Bring
Home the Gold… And a Tinder Date, Too
9.波特約泡
Here's How Much Dating Apps Are Killing It In Rio
He showed me his lightning Bolt,
and I couldn’t resist! – Brazilian Jady Duarte reveals
EVERYTHING about bedding Usain Bolt in the Olympic village
10.APP配對最成功
Here's How Much Dating Apps Are Killing It In Rio
延伸觀看:
0.鳳梨竟然會讓嘴巴爆血? 吃鳳梨為何會咬舌?
https://youtu.be/Uoz-vhMKPOA
1.中出、五十嵐真貴!?那些超奇葩的姓名
https://youtu.be/7_LDVCv8G-M
2.人類真的可以用刀擋下子彈嗎?史上最強的武士
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KoL4CqvxXAM
3.一首沒有任何聲音的歌?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0QcTRctHdSA
4.圈圈叉叉竟然有必勝走法?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBSimpaQ5uA
5.為何Pornhub每天都有大量影片上傳?當Pornhuber其實超好賺?
https://youtu.be/HZZPXpbJkI8
6.煮龍蝦竟然是犯法的唷?
https://youtu.be/vC8NyB9LtEM
what date is it 在 SHIBA and KOJI Youtube 的最佳貼文
There are times when I suddenly feel like I'm doing a DIY project.
Why am I doing something so hard?
What am I trying to do, to see, to feel?
It would be so much easier if I just asked for help.
The finished product is the same?, no.
It's not perfect, maybe it doesn't look good.
Why are we doing this?
I tried to find the answer through taking this video.
SHIBA and KOJI
_____________________________________________________
DIYをしながらふと感じる時がある。
なんでこんなに大変なことをやっているんだろう、
一体何をしよう、見よう、感じようをしているんだろう。
頼んでしまったら楽なのに。
出来上がるモノは一緒。
いや
完璧でなく見た目も良くないのかもしれない。
何故こんなことをしているのだろう。
その答えをカメラをまわして探してみた。
SHIBA and KOJI
_____________________________________________________
Music:
Song1:Dang it.
Artist:Smartface
Song2:Soft Speak
Artist:Siarate
Licensed by Epidemic Sound
_____________________________________________________
Location: Ito JAPAN
Date: Jun. 2021
Filmed by SHIBA and KOJI
_____________________________________________________
**FOLLOW SHIBA**
INSTA - https://www.instagram.com/nexadventure
TWIT - https://twitter.com/kojiandshiba
**FOLLOW KOJI**
INSTA - https://www.instagram.com/koji_slk
TWIT - https://twitter.com/kojiandshiba
#DIY #family #家族
what date is it 在 The Thirsty Sisters Youtube 的最佳解答
We found the key to make your partners with avoidant attachment styles (aka Nina) cringe and/or cry: Ask them 36 Questions to Fall in Love!
The Thirsty Sisters are back this week to grill each other with uncomfortable questions! But do they really work? Sylvia and Nina put it to the test and ask each other these vulnerable, intimate questions. Will this turn out surprisingly fuzzy or emotionally traumatic? Tune in to find out ❤️
Link to 36 Questions to Fall in Love: http://36questionsinlove.com/
00:00 Intro
01:15 Topic of the Day
02:09 Vulnerable = Fall in Love?
03:20 How we'll be doing the 36 Questions
04:34 These questions lead to marriage?
05:25 The perfect day for us
06:16 How will we die?
06:47 What do we have in common?
07:17 What are we most grateful for?
09:21 What would we change about the way we were raised?
11:05 What ability would we like to gain?
13:30 Would we ask these questions on a date?
15:22 What would we want to know from a crystal ball?
17:13 What we've dreamt of doing for a long time
20:16 What are our greatest accomplishments?
23:25 Nina is dying at this question
24:15 Our most treasured memories
27:34 Diving deep into Nina's unexpected reaction
29:17 Nina is having a mental breakdown
30:15 Our most terrible memories
33:52 How we would live if we were going to die soon
36:07 Nina is dying (figuratively)
37:06 When did we last cry?
40:26 What do we regret not saying to someone?
45:36 Our parent-child relationship struggles
47:00 What we would save in a fire
48:57 Set 1 vs Set 2 vs Set 3?
49:17 Did you fall in love with us?
50:02 Conclusion
Sylvia and Nina are not your typical influencers; they give it to you raw and real! Join them as they quench their never-ending thirst for wisdom, trends, success and men.
They explore hot and pressing issues you never thought you needed to know in this extremely in-depth podcast. Sisters, brothers and everyone in between or beyond; jump in and be thirsty!
*Disclaimers*
The legal age for sex in Singapore is 18. While being comfortable with your bodies is a must, please protect yourselves by using protection ?
https://singaporelegaladvice.com/law-articles/legal-age-for-sex-in-singapore/
Our views in this podcast include only our own experiences as heterosexual women in Singapore, we respect everyone’s views regardless of genders, gender identities and sexual orientations.
Follow The Thirsty Sisters on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Instagram!
https://podcasts.apple.com/sg/podcast/the-thirsty-sisters/id1509379792
https://www.instagram.com/thethirstysisterstts
https://open.spotify.com/show/5yx8txjfb7dMkosumEv6lQ?si=5Ew1dv6wRlCayZ0TQfo-Ug
Featuring:
Sylvia - https://www.instagram.com/sylsylnoc
Nina - https://www.instagram.com/ninatsf
Brand collaborations/features:
sales@noc.com.sg
The Thirsty Sisters TEAM
Co-Founders: Sylvia Chan | Nina Tan
Executive Producer: Sylvia Chan
Crew/Editors: Jade Liew | Winston Tay
Motion Graphics Designers: Bryan Seah | Kher Chyn
Sound Engineers: Nah Yu En | Mabel Leong
Digital Strategist: Winston Tay
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