Saya balik kerja, isteri cakap, "Abang, jom keluar jalan-jalan. Stress la"
Banyak kali macam tu. Pelik betul. Stress apa, duduk rumah jaga anak-anak tercinta yang comel-comel tu. Kalau ikutkan, keluar rumah, lagi la stress dan penat.
Bila fikir semula, saya bawa juga pusing-pusing naik kereta. Kadang-kadang, singgah pasaraya. Selalunya tak beli apa pun, window shopping je. Tapi dia punya teruja, macam anak kecil diajak pergi Disneyland.
...Continue ReadingI came back from work, wife said, ′′ Brother, let's go for a walk. Stress la ′′
Many times like that. So weird. Stress what, stay at home and take care of your cute beloved children. If you follow, you'll get out of the house, you'll be stressed and tired
When I think about it, I'm also driving around the car. Sometimes stop by the supermarket. Always don't buy anything, window shopping only. But he's excited, like a little kid was invited to Disneyland.
′′ Thank you brother, for taking a walk!", my wife will say this every time she walks.
I remember a message, ′′ This woman's emotion is like a small balloon, can't handle too much stress. It will erupt. Different from us men ′′
My wife used to be gentle, since I had this child, if I don't have time, I'll lose the king of the Feels like eating people. Weird too. Where did his old softness and humanity go?
We just hold our handphone, suddenly we can be attacked. Shocking. Suddenly erupted.
I'm trying to understand this situation. Yes, we husbands are hard to understand.
Apparently, not as tired as a husband and tired as a wife.
Child cries for milk, other children are fighting screaming, the other one is forced to watch cartoons, the house is like a broken barge. The cooking, business, lack of sleep, hunger, washing clothes, neat, entertaining the customer's attitude. This happens everyday, almost every time.
Look at this picture, want to sleep, just want to be with his mom. There's no room for his mother. I have to cover my wife's headscarf for this kid to confuse.
This hustle is forcing the wife physically, mentally and emotionally.
Who else is the wife's place to complain and expect? It's us, his partner. That's why if their emotions aren't calmed, it can explode!
So, this advice is for myself and my husbands. Wife is Allah's trust in us.
1. Listen to her story. If the wife wants to talk, listen to her face, or hug her. Show us what we care and support him. When we ignore him he wants to luv his tiredness, he's heartbreaking. You know that I'm sulking. It's worse if we're cynical and lower his feelings. Don't be weird if the wife can fight.
2. Taking care of the house is our work too. There is no such thing as 'helping wife do housework'. If you follow, that's our job too. We cook because we want to eat, we wash our clothes and dishes because we've worn it. That's our house and that's our child. We have responsibility. Lighten the bones.
3. Wife's work has no office hour. He's not a robot, so, for his time to rest and ' me time '. He's not resting, since he had his first child.
To me, taking care of this household has two schools of thought. One, wife has to treat husband like a king. Secondly, taking care of the house together. Both are right. Adjust it to our way.
All wives, I'm sorry, if I don't understand you, for husbands a chance. We take care of us Things can be discussed. Start by talking good with a partner.
Forgive me if there are any mistakes and mistakes. We are human beings. Why does husband have shortcomings? Because you are her complement.
We are not the best, but let us try to be the best.
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Kasihnya ibu membawa ke syurga , Kasihnya ayah sepanjang masa ... 👇👇👇
Tadi saya nak pergi ke ofis di Putrajaya. Jalan lengang waktu itu. Saya memandu sambil chill layan angin petang.
Waktu nak sampai di lampu isyarat, saya nampak seorang lelaki bawa motor. Saya nampak dia macam ada bawa sesuatu. Saya rapatkan kereta dan saya jenguk. Memang betul. Dia bawa teddy bear besar.
Kebetulan lampu merah. Saya berhenti bersebelahan dengan dia. Saya turunkan tingkap dan tanya "Bang, besar teddy bear tu. Nak bawa ke mana tu?"
Dia angkat tunjuk dekat saya. Dia buka pelitup muka dan dia cakap " Ya bang. Ini saya jumpa waktu kerja tadi. Dekat tempat sampah ada orang buang, saya ambil bang"
Saya tanya lagi "Tu nak bawa balik bagi anak ke?"
Dia terdiam. Dia pandang teddy bear tu, dia pandang saya. Saya pandang dia.
Tajam renungan dia lalu dia berkata "Ya bang. Anak saya lagi mahu teddy bear. Kelmarin ada nampak di kedai. Tapi harganya mahal sangat. Boleh buat lauk makan keluarga bang. (Sambil ketawa). Ini bear tadi saya jumpa dekat tempat sampah, masih elok. Memang rejeki dia. Nanti saya basuh bersih, saya bagi dia mesti dia suka"
Ya Allah. Sayu bunyinya. Saya tergamam sekejap. Lampu bertukar hijau. Dia angkat tangan dekat saya. Saya cakap dekat dia "Hati-hati bang. Nak hujan ni. Abang memang ayah terbaik"
Sekejap sahaja Tuhan hantarkan saya peringatan. Atas apa jua kepayahan yang sedang kita lalui, ada orang lebih susah dari kita.
Begitulah kasihnya seorang ayah. Kita selalu dengar kisah pengorbanan ibu dan para wanita. Namun, usah kita lupa pengorbanan para lelaki.
Setiap hari mereka keluar mencari rezeki. Entah hujan, entah panas. Tak siapa yang tahu apa dilalui setiap hari bagi memastikan ada nasi di atas pinggan untuk keluarga.
Lelaki ni memang jenis tak suka sangat bercerita apa yang mereka lalui di luar. Tanggungjawab di bahu yang dipikul bukan mudah. Kadang tu, atas motor tak perasan air mata berlinang. Betul tak?
Buat para lelaki, moga terus kuat semangat semuanya. Setiap tanggungjawab ini, ada ganjaran pahala di sisi Tuhan.
Mari kita semua bersama-sama terus melawan kerasnya hidup ini. Kita tidak boleh putus asa kerana di belakang kita ada harapan yang perlu dipenuhi.
Kalau rasa down, tatap sekejap wajah-wajah insan yang Tuhan amanahkan untuk kita.
Nescaya, membara semangat!
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I wanted to go to the office in Putrajaya. The road was quiet at that time. I'm driving while chilling in the evening air.
Time to reach the signal light, I saw a man riding a motorcycle. I see him like he's bringing something. I tighten the car and I visit. It's true. He brought a big teddy bear.
Coincidentally red light. I stopped next to her. I dropped the window and asked ′′ Bang, that teddy bear is big. Where to bring it?"
He lifted my show. He opened his face and he said ′′ Ya bang. This is what I found at work just now. Someone throws it near the trash can, I take it bang ′′
I ask again ′′ Do you want to bring your children back?"
She is speechless. He looked at the teddy bear, he looked at me. I look at her.
Sharp thought he was then he said ′′ Yes bro. My baby wants a teddy bear again. Saw it yesterday at the shop. But the price is very expensive. Can make a family meal, brother. (While laughing). I found this bear in the trash can, still good. Indeed his fortune. Later I wash it clean, I give it to him he must like it ′′
Oh God. Sounds sad. I was stunned for a while. The lights turn green. He raised my hand close to me. I said to him ′′ Watch out bro. It's going to rain. Brother is the best father ′′
In a moment God send me a reminder. For whatever hardship we are going through, there are people who are harder than us.
That's how a father is. We always hear the story of the sacrifices of mothers and women. However, we don't forget the sacrifice of men.
Every day they go out looking for sustenance. I don't know it's raining, I No one knows what goes through everyday to make sure there's rice on the plate for the family.
This guy really doesn't like to talk about what they are going through outside. Responsibility on the shoulder that is carried is not easy. Sometimes, on the motorbike I don't notice the tears in tears. Isn't it true?
For men, may everyone continue to be strong. Every responsibility, there is a reward in God's side.
Let's all together continue to fight the hard life of this life. We can't give up because behind us there is hope to be filled.
If you feel down, look at the faces of the people that God entrusts for us.
Surely, burning spirit!
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Black Panther 導演悼念 Chadwick Bosemen 極度真摯的一封信。極度令人感動。What a great man. Calm, assured, always studying. Just like me.
Before sharing my thoughts on the passing of the great Chadwick Boseman, I first offer my condolences to his family who meant so very much to him. To his wife, Simone, especially.
I inherited Marvel and the Russo Brothers' casting choice of T'Challa. It is something that I will forever be grateful for. The first time I saw Chad's performance as T'Challa, it was in an unfinished cut of Captain America: Civil War. I was deciding whether or not directing Black Panther was the right choice for me. I'll never forget, sitting in an editorial suite on the Disney Lot and watching his scenes. His first with Scarlett Johansson as Black Widow, then, with the South African cinema titan, John Kani as T'Challa's father, King T'Chaka. It was at that moment I knew I wanted to make this movie. After Scarlett's character leaves them, Chad and John began conversing in a language I had never heard before. It sounded familiar, full of the same clicks and smacks that young black children would make in the States. The same clicks that we would often be chided for being disrespectful or improper. But, it had a musicality to it that felt ancient, powerful, and African.
In my meeting after watching the film, I asked Nate Moore, one of the producers of the film, about the language. "Did you guys make it up?" Nate replied, "That's Xhosa, John Kani's native language. He and Chad decided to do the scene like that on set, and we rolled with it." I thought to myself, "He just learned lines in another language, that day?" I couldn't conceive how difficult that must have been, and even though I hadn't met Chad, I was already in awe of his capacity as actor.
I learned later that there was much conversation over how T'Challa would sound in the film. The decision to have Xhosa be the official language of Wakanda was solidified by Chad, a native of South Carolina, because he was able to learn his lines in Xhosa, there on the spot. He also advocated for his character to speak with an African accent, so that he could present T'Challa to audiences as an African king, whose dialect had not been conquered by the West.
I finally met Chad in person in early 2016, once I signed onto the film. He snuck past journalists that were congregated for a press junket I was doing for "Creed," and met with me in the green room. We talked about our lives, my time playing football in college, and his time at Howard studying to be a director, about our collective vision for T'Challa and Wakanda. We spoke about the irony of how his former Howard classmate Ta-Nehisi Coates was writing T'Challa's current arc with Marvel Comics. And how Chad knew Howard student Prince Jones, who's murder by a police officer inspired Coates' memoir Between The World and Me.
I noticed then that Chad was an anomaly. He was calm. Assured. Constantly studying. But also kind, comforting, had the warmest laugh in the world, and eyes that seen much beyond his years, but could still sparkle like a child seeing something for the first time.
That was the first of many conversations. He was a special person. We would often speak about heritage and what it means to be African. When preparing for the film, he would ponder every decision, every choice, not just for how it would reflect on himself, but how those choices could reverberate. "They not ready for this, what we are doing…" "This is Star Wars, this is Lord of the Rings, but for us… and bigger!" He would say this to me while we were struggling to finish a dramatic scene, stretching into double overtime. Or while he was covered in body paint, doing his own stunts. Or crashing into frigid water, and foam landing pads. I would nod and smile, but I didn't believe him. I had no idea if the film would work. I wasn't sure I knew what I was doing. But I look back and realize that Chad knew something we all didn't. He was playing the long game. All while putting in the work. And work he did.
He would come to auditions for supporting roles, which is not common for lead actors in big budget movies. He was there for several M'Baku auditions. In Winston Duke's, he turned a chemistry read into a wrestling match. Winston broke his bracelet. In Letitia Wright's audition for Shuri, she pierced his royal poise with her signature humour, and would bring about a smile to T'Challa's face that was 100% Chad.
While filming the movie, we would meet at the office or at my rental home in Atlanta, to discuss lines and different ways to add depth to each scene. We talked costumes, military practices. He said to me "Wakandans have to dance during the coronations. If they just stand there with spears, what separates them from Romans?" In early drafts of the script. Eric Killmonger's character would ask T'Challa to be buried in Wakanda. Chad challenged that and asked, "What if Killmonger asked to be buried somewhere else?"
Chad deeply valued his privacy, and I wasn't privy to the details of his illness. After his family released their statement, I realised that he was living with his illness the entire time I knew him. Because he was a caretaker, a leader, and a man of faith, dignity and pride, he shielded his collaborators from his suffering. He lived a beautiful life. And he made great art. Day after day, year after year. That was who he was. He was an epic firework display. I will tell stories about being there for some of the brilliant sparks 'till the end of my days. What an incredible mark he's left for us.
I haven't grieved a loss this acute before. I spent the last year preparing, imagining and writing words for him to say, that we weren't destined to see. It leaves me broken knowing that I won't be able to watch another close-up of him in the monitor again or walk up to him and ask for another take.
It hurts more to know that we can't have another conversation, or Facetime, or text message exchange. He would send vegetarian recipes and eating regimens for my family and me to follow during the pandemic. He would check in on me and my loved ones, even as he dealt with the scourge of cancer.
In African cultures, we often refer to loved ones that have passed on as ancestors. Sometimes you are genetically related. Sometimes you are not. I had the privilege of directing scenes of Chad's character, T'Challa, communicating with the ancestors of Wakanda. We were in Atlanta, in an abandoned warehouse, with bluescreens, and massive movie lights, but Chad's performance made it feel real. I think it was because from the time that I met him, the ancestors spoke through him.
It's no secret to me now how he was able to skilfully portray some of our most notable ones. I had no doubt that he would live on and continue to bless us with more. But it is with a heavy heart and a sense of deep gratitude to have ever been in his presence, that I have to reckon with the fact that Chad is an ancestor now. And I know that he will watch over us, until we meet again.
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※ 引述《abbot ()》之銘言:
: 請問一下
: 這句話 that's what she said
: 在這影集中的笑點是甚麼
: 好像是有點黃色笑話
: 但有人知道這句話的來源嗎?
: 謝謝
"That's what she said."是一句開玩笑的話
使用的時機是在當某人說了一句話
而這句話又可以被詮釋成有關"性"方面的事情時
(像是"It was so hard." "It's huge"等等)
這時另一個人就可說"That's what she said."
例如當Kevin指著辦公室的聖誕樹
問Michael說"Why did you get it so big?"
Michael就回答"That's what she said."
把Kevin的話變成一句黃色笑話("big"本來指的是聖誕樹 但現在變成別的意思了)
在The office裡
Michael非常喜歡用"That's what she said."這個梗
但他使用的時機常常都很不恰當
所以常常他說完 都不會有人笑 反而覺得他很白目
網路上還有人把此劇中所有"That's what she said."出現的時機剪輯出來
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