【為什麼你看命後，還是失敗？】(English writing below)
你是不是看過命，卻還是沒有錢？你是不是見了很多師父，事業卻依然沒起色，迷失在十字路口中？
很多人都曾看過命，沒有突破，原地踏步，嚴重的甚至一敗塗地。
我想告訴你答案，但真實的答案，總是讓人不舒服。
你如果要知道為什麼，請繼續閱讀。如果不要，那就跳過我這篇貼文。
你為什麼依舊改不了命？
因為你沒有做應該做的，你不覺得是必要的，當然註定失敗，也必會連累自己的家人。
其中一個原因就是，客人容易犯自視過高的毛病。
改命有改命的規矩，就如減肥有減肥的步驟，要考好成績也有它的程序。
簡單的說，你在人間，要得到任何一種成功，無論是事業、財運、婚姻、家庭、親子關係等等，都有它們的規則要遵守。
可是許多人會把自己的情緒和個人的喜歡，與這些改命的原則混為一談。
這，就是錯誤的開始。
無論我解釋的多麼清楚、仔細，還是會有客人會嫌麻煩，覺得要改變自己的生活習慣，是失去控制自己命運的自由。
其實，你以為的自由是一種幻覺，是業力的延伸。我們來講一句實在話，如果你有能力引導你的命運走向更好的未來，這麽到現在這個年齡都還沒看到你要的成功呢？
有些客人知道是業障阻礙他們前進。他們就會跟我說，業障重，沒辦法過的，很難消的。
成功者找辦法，失敗者找藉口。找辦法，因為不要讓自己的家人陪著自己辛苦，決心要自己這一生中能早點成功。找藉口，因為不要踏出自己的舒適圈，就算委屈了家人，也覺得家人同心無所謂 - 自私自虐也。
但，這些都是你可以選的。
去年，我把頭髮留長。今年，我把秀髮剪短。好些眼尖的人來問我，為什麼留長髮，為何又要削掉，是不是比較旺我？
當然，我是風水命理師。我自己不做一個榜樣給客人看，自己不旺，如何給予他們信心和希望呢？頭髮而已，何必執著？有錢，比較實在。😄
講個笑話，人生的問題，有99%是需要錢去解決的，另外1%是需要更多的錢。🤣
我喜歡最近來批八字的女客人講的一句話：
「我非常有決心要改變我的命運，通過聽從您的建議。其實，這些不難做到。我只需要慢慢的把它們融入進我的日常生活裡。不知為什麼，現在知道哪些顏色、風格和飲食能加強我的用神，反而省卻我不少時間去決定要什麼！」
做人，想法簡單點，只要能讓我更有錢，又能讓我生活少辛苦點，而且又合乎我的戒律，我就會去做。人生很短，既然可以免去，何必浪費青春去吃苦呢？
若您和我這位客人一樣已厭倦辛苦的人生，尋找一個極速改命的方案，又願意邁出自己的舒適圈，歡迎聯絡我。
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Have you gotten your destiny analysed, but still have no money? Have you consulted many Masters, but your career is still going nowhere and you are lost at the crossroads?
You are not alone. Many people have gotten their Bazi read, but they achieve no breakthrough and remain at the same spot. For the more serious cases, they suffer a crushing defeat and become total failures.
I want to tell you the answer today, but the truth is never comfortable to hear.
If you wish to know why, please continue to read. Otherwise, you can just skip my post.
Why, after several consultations, do you still fail to change your destiny?
Because you did not do what was required, you didn't think it was necessary. The end result of your actions can only be failure, that will definitely implicates your family.
One mistake that many clients commit is overestimating their knowledge.
There are rules to changing one's destiny, just like losing weight has its protocol to follow, and getting good results for exams calls for adherence to a formula.
Simply put, to achieve any form of success in this mortal world, no matter in your career, wealth, marriage, family and children relations, there are rules and procedures to follow in the right sequence.
However, many people like to mix their personal emotions and preferences into the rules of changing destiny.
And that is where things start going wrong.
Regardless how careful and meticulous my explanation is, there are still clients who find it troublesome to adjust their living habits. They think of it as losing their freedom to control their lives.
Actually, the freedom you think you possess is just an illusion, an extension of your negative karma. Let's talk real. If you have the ability to guide your destiny to a better future, why are you not seeing the success you want at this age? Can you give me an exact timeline, how long more are you going to take?
Some clients know it is their negative karma preventing them from moving forward. They tell me, their karma is too huge a burden. There is no way they can surpass it. It is too difficult.
The successful people find solutions, because they are determined to success earlier and not let their loved ones suffer with them. The failures find excuses because they do not wish to step out of their comfort zone, and even when it means compromising on their families, they think as long as they are still together, it's okay. That is self-abuse and selfishness.
But all these are just choices that you can change.
Last year, I kept my hair long. This year, I cut my hair short. Some sharp-eyed readers ask me why I kept it long and then chop off my locks. Do my decisions make me more prosperous?
Of course, I am a Chinese Metaphyics practitioner. If I do not set an example for my clients and make myself wealthier, how do I give them confidence and hope? It's just hair anyway. No need to be stubborn to it. Having money is more practical. 😄
Tell you a joke: in all the problems we face in Life, 99% of them can be solved with money. The other 1% gets solved with more money. 🤣
Changing myself is not a matter of life and death. It can be done easily when the mindset is right.
I like what my recent Bazi client said,
"I’m very determined to change my destiny by following through your advice. In fact, they are not difficult to follow as I just need to slowly include them into my daily lifestyle. Somehow i felt it makes my life easier, now that I know what colours, style and diet can enhance my favourable elements, saving me time on deciding what to get!"
Life is short. We should not waste our youth to suffer in vain and going around in circles. That is my simple way of thinking. Anything that can make me richer and suffer less, I will do it as long as it is within my precepts.
If you, like my client, are sick of being tormented by sufferings, seek a rapid solution to changing your destiny, and are willing to take the first step out of your comfort zone, you are most welcome to look for me.
