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Have you ever spent time with someone and you feel like your energy has been drained? If all that person do most of the time is to bad-mouth someone, or judge your life or discourage you from achieving what you truly want, then you're with a toxic person.
Trust me, I don't mind spending a fortune to just STAY AWAY from this type of people.
Why You Should Avoid Toxic People?
1. They will drain your positive energy
Constant negativity from them creates a very negative vibe. So you won't feel lifted or elevated with their presence in your life. Them complaining about their life, giving up easily and always blaming others will create a very bad vibe around you.
It will feel completely opposite when you're with positive people. They will elevate your energy and make you not to give up easily and ask you to keep trying when things don't go how it should be.
2. They alter your thinking
Toxic people have their way to your brain where they will make you believe that it's better to give up than to try other ways. The more you spend your time around them, the more you will start to behave like them. Basically, your attitude will be changed.
You will be prone to do the bare minimum as you don't have the energy to fight the negative vibe. As I have mentioned earlier, congratulations, your energy has been fully sucked by those toxic people.
3. They love drama
Have you seen a group of people get together and gossip about others? They are toxic! Positive people usually won't have time to ridicule or gossip about others. They will be more into knowing your progress or they will be sharing their experiences and talk about beneficial stuff than waste the time to talk bad about others.
You grow with positive people and your growth will come to a halt with toxic people.
How I identify toxic people?
Once you feel like somebody is giving you the negative vibes, pressuring you to do something you're not comfortable with, or creating too much unnecessary drama, then they are toxic,
It's time to avoid them.
Have you been with toxic people before? Comment below on your experiences!
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Apparently, stress and boredom cause you to indulge in your bad habits. I found it to be true as I always shop whenever I am stressed out.
It is a hell of habit as shopping kind of soothes me and makes me feel like I am doing something beneficial. In a way, I actually avoid thinking about that stressful moment.
But I end up wasting so much money and I don't even use most of the stuff that I bought.
How to stop bad habits?
1. Stop them from the root.
As I said my bad habit is to shop, so the root is the money. I made a budget and set a very limited amount of money to shop. So eventually I became well aware that I can't afford to shop because I am saving up for something else.
Before I did that budget, I used to blindly spend. I never actually cared to save up for anything. I always think "Oh, I would be able to manage it soon."
Only when I became mindful about my spending, I started being serious and took each spending into consideration whether it is vital or not.
2. Stop the distraction
Social media is made up of a world full of distractions and it is such eye candy to those who want to be spoilt. The number of ads I get for shopping is uncountable and the offers are so enticing that you will surely end up buying 4 mascaras from different brands at the same time when you don't even use one!
So what you do when this happens is STOP THE AD! There are buttons and settings around the ad where you can set it to " I don't want to see this". I did that to each and every ad I see about sales or offers until I got none.
The fewer sales I saw, the less I thought about SHOPPING.
3. Replace your bad habits
Some say you can't stop the bad habits, you can only replace it. Which makes a lot of sense. When you replace it, you will forget whatever you had before it. Instead of shopping, I can go to the gym or go for a walk instead. Exhaust me there, de-stress and completely distract myself.
I get an amazing body and I get to save so much money! What a winning situation right?
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1. You are who you think you are
Yes! Don't wait for somebody to come and tell you that "You're perfect and you're the most beautiful person in this world". Tell yourself that "you're perfect and you're the most beautiful person in this world". Coach your own self and emotions. When you're sad pat yourself and tell "Don't worry you have yourself to make you feel better". With this, you will feel more optimistic about yourself and you will start to trust your own will.
2. Compete with none other than you!
Just because somebody is in a better place compared to you that doesn't make them any better and you to be any lesser. So focus on yourself and create some aims for you. Reach your goals one by one and in no time you will be in a far way better place than you're now. So the only person you should be competing is you.
3. Give the muscles in your body some work
Move some muscles so your body can feel refreshed and rejuvenated. It also helps to boost your mood to make you feel like you can move a mountain. Don't feel better even after moving a few muscles? It's time to enter a gym or try a few good sports like badminton or swimming.