“That’s a stupid idea.”
“Stick to what you know.”
“You can’t afford that.”
“No one would say yes to that.”
“I would never do that.”
“That is too risky.”
“No one wants to hear that from you.”
“You’re too young”
“You’re too old.”
“You’re not serious, right?.” - I’ve heard them all... 😔
And the more I share and grow, the more risk I take, the more I step into a bigger life, the more I hear it...
But... guess what? OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINION IS NONE OF OUR BUSINESS.
It’s called “opinion” for a reason. It’s not the TRUTH.💥
Other people’s opinions used to run me. I used to ask for approval. I cared (way too much) what others thought.
It could become a problem when it gets between you and your goals and vision.
So how do you fix this?
Here is what I do: I ask myself, “Mich, whose life are you living?” and “Who are you living for?”
Whenever I do that, it puts things back into perspective and it reminds me that ultimately, the decision is mine alone. Others opinion is just that, an opinion.
You see, others opinions do not pay our bills.
Others opinions don’t keep us warm at night.
Others opinions are merely a reflection of THEIR own experiences, beliefs and missed goals.
Their opinions don’t “protect us”.
What others opinions do for us is distracting us from our vision, our goals, our hopes and dreams.
Anything is POSSIBLE for you, so do not muddy that belief with someone’s “opinion.”
Be careful who you seek guidance from.
What would you go for if you stop caring about others opinion?👇🏻
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好娘都要講句多謝每一位出席我birthday party嘅朋友♥️
他們當中有小學一年級同學,中學同學、大學同學,又有今年才認識的朋友,讓我回想不同階段的自己。
以前嘅Esther Sham,脾氣火爆,超級自我中心,細個玩猜皇帝輸咗會發脾氣唔玩,十幾歲時跟朋友們外出食飯,侍應做錯事我會當著成班人面前大鬧而完全唔覺自己有問題;就連長大後阿哥好心幫我拎架車去整,我會話佢好煩,其實都幾離譜😅😅
出來社會工作,歷練多了,待人接物或多或少有改善,但都只是將不好的性格和想法隱藏,所以內心好大爭扎,為何朋友結婚我第一時間係妒忌?點解好多事情都先想自己?我身體裏正邪念好強 ,好有正義感但又有好多壞想法,直到信主後才得到真正改變,得到釋放。Party當晚有位媽媽好友是在我患抑鬱康復期間認識,她說那時的我性格好飄,好急,好自我中心,完全不理別人感受⋯⋯有些人性格親民,身邊滿是朋友,我就是性格天生有缺陷那種。我以前經常問天父,點解我性格會咁?點解身邊好似只有我是這樣的性格?點解我人生常常發生dramatic的事?點解好似有「朋友障礙」,總是覺得自己識好多人,好多個朋友圈,但好似無「鐵膽」朋友呢?🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️也許天父有祂的旨意,不平凡的性格和人生才能幫助不同性格不同經歷的人,懂得從不同角度看事情,例如又有邊個會好似我咁不斷生蛇,經驗豐富到幫助好幾個人解決生蛇問題👐🏻👐🏻👐🏻
小時候的我性格好爆好極端,製造咗好多令大家尷尬的moment,自己諗返都滴汗😅😅😅好多謝你哋對我不離不棄,當你哋對我嘅轉變感覺好amazing,我又何嘗唔係對你哋無離我而去而感到amazing🙌🏻
細個覺得友誼永固好多餘,長大後才發現友誼原來不一定會永固。好吧,不長氣了,感激你哋留在我身邊的每一位,祝我哋「友誼永固」,繼續多多指教♥️
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Today post👇🏻
#女人40
#40而不惑,我終於領略到這道理。
十幾歲到三十歲,對我來說心態無差,反而去到40歲出現明顯的分水嶺。
我們都愛幻想,媽跟我說她小時候也會幻想長大變成怎麼樣的人。經過十幾廿幾三十幾歲,現在到了四十,就發現從前幻想與現實間的差別出現,可以幻像的空間也就越來越少。
十幾歲是揮霍,生活是玩樂與讀書。廿幾歲對未來充滿期望,想入流想埋堆,不停改變喜好,卻又未夠了解自己個性,真正的喜好和興趣甚至技能,是不斷探索的階段。三十幾歲是行動階段,好勝心重,人得我又要得,不成功便成仁,跌跌碰碰最後令自己損手爛腳。去了四十,也許經歷過人生不同起跌,忽然頓悟一切,「40而不惑」,看透了世事人生,清楚自己的能力,性格喜好,優點缺點⋯⋯更清晰未來嘅路要點行,會更embrace自己。
人生有太多事想做,但總有先後次序,我要試要做的過去十年都做了,你問我有拎米芝蓮的野心嗎?有!開分店?有!8年前,我在人生最關鍵的時間決定生仔,AJ出世後一年再懷上AT,之後就病倒⋯⋯冥冥中天父已為我安排一切,你問我有後悔嗎?沒有。因為我知道令我最開心滿足的是家庭而不是星星餐廳。今年四十,Esther Sham好像沒有什麼achievement,沒有滿牆獎狀,只有一家建立了13年的餐廳,尤如家人的同事,三個仔仔,一位我好愛好愛的丈夫,足矣。
總有人不愛談歲數,個人喜惡又好,覺得40歲好老又好,上天是公平的,每人都會經歷一次18歲、20歲、30歲、40歲,為何要be ashamed of年齡?如果你曾因為歲數而感苦惱,我先給你一個擁抱,跟你說一句「你很漂亮!你是最好的!」
作為一位女性、妻子、母親、廚師、企業家,媒體訪問總會問到我的人生座右銘或女人觀,我就是說「女人要工作!女人要工作!女人要工作!」,全職媽媽固然偉大,但切忌與社會脫節,仔女會大,留在家中反而令他們添壓力,我讀書時說曾聽過同學說:「阿媽嫁咗阿爸就無做嘢,識咩呀佢?」那刻起我決心成為一位女強人,孩子牽著我的手是要感到自豪不是自卑。
女人四十(什麼年齡也好),也要自愛自強,共勉之。
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