【德多少,就得多少】
YOUR VIRTUES DETERMINE HOW MUCH YOU GET
最近家附近有建築工地,噪音多了。
客人聽我的聲音不會有問題,因為我的耳機有麥克風,但如果他們不戴有麥克風的耳機,我聽他們的聲音會比較辛苦。
幾天前,為一位年輕的保險經紀通過Zoom批八字。
他進入Zoom會議室後,呆看著我。
我微笑看著他,故意不出聲,觀察著他。
幾秒後,他才粗魯的說:「哈囉?!」
奇怪了,貴為一個保險經紀,見人應該無數,打招呼的方式,怎能這麼粗俗?我阿姨阿伯級的客人,雖不常用Zoom,都比他懂禮貌。
我馬上回:「X先生,您好。您進來會議室,怎麼打招呼這麼粗俗?」
「我一向來都是這樣先哈囉,有聲音我才正式打招呼。」
「我倒是從來不會這樣。」
其實,這是個人修養的問題。
「你沒有讀我發給你的貼文嗎?為何你視訊沒有戴耳機?」
「我一向來Zoom都是這樣,沒有戴耳機。我以為你只是建議而已,不一定要戴。」
「我在貼文裡寫關於戴耳機的理由,你覺得不成立嗎?」
他想了幾秒,回:「是成立的。」
「我們都是提供服務的人。客人找我們,需要三大元素。第一個,就是同理心。你沒有同理心,難怪你說你的客人寧願聽別人說,也不信你說。」
「如果你要我戴,我現在就戴。」
他講完後,依然坐在那裡看著我,一動也不動。
後來,我說了幾句,他肯戴上耳機後,藍牙耳機也並沒操作好。
等了我一個月,這麼簡單的事情都不願事先做好。
看著他理直氣壯的模樣,頓時覺得他很可憐。
貴人坐在他面前,他說的一大堆話,都是以「自我」為出發點,完全不懂得「以和為貴」的道理。這不就是親手把貴人轟出門嗎?
「你這樣講話,就算講贏了,你真的贏了嗎?」
換成我是他的客人,我絕不會向他買保險,因為很明顯這不是一位真心為別人著想的保險經紀人。
那天,雖為他看八字,該說的我都有說,但我依然保留許多。
因為他缺德。
許多人把「德」看得很輕,覺得沒做壞事就是好人。事實上,不按照別人合理的要求做事,蓄意破壞規則,只顧自己,也是沒有德行可言。
有些人會吐槽,哎呀你學佛的人,要慈悲,何必跟他計較?不要著相!
我不是在意氣用事。
沒有智慧的慈悲,會害死人的。
祖師有訓 - 看命本來就是依客人的福德多寡,而賜福。品行不端的人,承受不起更多的福報,反而會遭反噬。再說了,對貴人都不好的人,對沒有利用價值的人就會更善良嗎?
不是捐錢的,就一定是好人,什麼事情都是要用心才算。
每個人都想要與眾不同,可是如果你的所作所為和一般人一樣,沒有比他們做得更好,那你的命格只配拿得起一般的命運。
不要迷信,以為什麼都是人家為難你,就跑去求神拜佛要打小人。我們命運裡的每一個障礙,每一粒石頭,都是自己放進去的。
你不改,障礙物就不會移。
在這裡聲明:沒有麥克風耳機的Zoom客人,我一概會取消諮詢,進行退款,沒得商量,沒得瞎掰。
能突然放假,真是太過癮了!
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Recently, a construction site sprouted up beside my place, creating a lot of noise every day.
Zoom clients wouldn’t have a problem hearing me, but if they do not have a earpiece with a mic, I would have a problem hearing them.
Few days ago, I did a Bazi analysis for a young Insurance Agent via Zoom.
After he entered my Zoom meeting room, he looked at me blankly.
I smiled at him, deliberately staying quiet, and observed him.
Few seconds later, he said bluntly, “Hello?!”
How strange that an insurance agent, who probably have met tons of people, would greet in such an abrupt manner. My middle-aged clients, who rarely use Zoom, have better etiquette than him.
I replied instantly, “Hi, Mr X. Why is your greeting so crude, upon entering this meeting room?”
“I always say hello like this and wait to hear a reply, before I greet officially.”
“I never do that.”
Actually, this demonstrates the refinement of a person.
“Did you not read the post I sent you? Why are you not wearing a earpiece?”
“All along, I do Zooms in this manner without a earpiece. I thought it’s just a suggestion from you and it was not mandatory.”
“I wrote about the reason for clients to wear a earpiece. Do you find it invalid?”
He pondered for a few seconds and replied, “It’s valid.”
“We are both service providers. Clients look for us based on three main qualities. The first being the quality of empathy. You lack empathy and it’s no wonder you say your clients rather listen to others and not trust you as much.”
“If you want me to wear, then I will wear it now”
And he sat there looking at me, not moving an inch.
When he finally put on his ear pods, they did not operate well either.
It’s peculiar how despite a month of waiting for me, he was slow to get this simple thing done right.
Seeing how “self-assured” he was, for a brief moment, I find his behaviour pitiful.
His benefactor was sitting right in front of him, yet his words remained self-serving, totally oblivious to what harmony is about. Wasn’t this sending your benefactor straight out of the door?
“Even if you gain an upper hand talking like this, have you really won?
I would never buy insurance from such an agent, as obviously he was not the considerate kind.
I still read his Bazi that day, said what I should but there were also a lot I did not reveal.
Because he is lacking in virtues.
Many people think lightly of virtues. They assumed that if they do no evil deed, they are virtuous humans. Fact is, if you do not follow the reasonable requirements of other people, deliberately breaking the rules for your own gain, you have no virtue to speak of.
Some naysayers will tell me, but hey you are a practicing Buddhist, so you should exercise your compassion and not be bothered with his behaviour! Don’t get attached to external form!
This isn’t about me.
Compassion without wisdom brings more harm than good.
Since ancient times, it is a rule of thumb that we practitioners allocate good fortune to clients, based on their conduct and luck.
A person with undesirable conduct is unable to bear greater fortune, or there will be adverse consequences. Moreover, if a person is unkind to his benefactor, it is very unlikely that he will be kinder to another person with no value to him.
You can’t define a person as a good man, just because he is willing to donate money. We got to look at how he uses his heart.
Everybody wants to be special and different from others. But if what you are doing is the same as other people, nowhere better than them, then you can only carry a mediocre Destiny.
Don’t be superstitious to think that everybody is out to get you, and you go running to the temples or Feng Shui masters to chase away the villains.
Every obstacle in our destiny, every little stone that trips us, is placed in our lives by no other person but ourselves.
If you do not change, the obstacle isn’t going to budge either.
And here’s an official note: For any Zoom client that does not wear a earpiece with a microphone, I will cancel the consultation and give you a refund.
Having off days out of the blue are so much more fun!
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Nữ Ngoài 50 1m55 75-65kg - 30 phút Giảm Mỡ 300 Calo Tập Dễ Nhất Thế Giới Tại Nhà
***Các bài tập trong video : https://youtu.be/xf4sJjlinb4
00:00 Chuẩn bị
01:00 Vươn vai trái phải - Stretch Left Right
01:40 Nhảy đưa tay về trước - Jump Raise Front Hand
02:20 Nâng chân Nâng tay - Leg Raise Leg Hand
03:00 Xoay Thân Trên - Rotation Upper
03:40 Nhảy nhẹ - Jump light
04:20 Nhảy nhẹ JJ - Light Jumping Jack
05:00 Vươn vai trái phải - Stretch Left Right
05:40 Nhảy đưa tay về trước - Jump Raise Front Hand
06:20 Nâng chân Nâng tay - Leg Raise Leg Hand
07:00 Xoay Thân Trên - Rotation Upper
07:40 Nhảy nhẹ - Jump light
08:20 Nhảy nhẹ JJ - Light Jumping Jack
09:00 Vươn vai trái phải - Stretch Left Right
09:40 Nhảy đưa tay về trước - Jump Raise Front Hand
10:20 Nâng chân Nâng tay - Leg Raise Leg Hand
11:00 Xoay Thân Trên - Rotation Upper
11:40 Nhảy nhẹ - Jump light
12:20 Nhảy nhẹ JJ - Light Jumping Jack
13:00 Vươn vai trái phải - Stretch Left Right
13:40 Nhảy đưa tay về trước - Jump Raise Front Hand
14:20 Nâng chân Nâng tay - Leg Raise Leg Hand
15:00 Xoay Thân Trên - Rotation Upper
15:40 Nhảy nhẹ - Jump light
16:20 Nhảy nhẹ JJ - Light Jumping Jack
17:00 Vươn vai trái phải - Stretch Left Right
17:40 Nhảy đưa tay về trước - Jump Raise Front Hand
18:20 Nâng chân Nâng tay - Leg Raise Leg Hand
19:00 Xoay Thân Trên - Rotation Upper
19:40 Nhảy nhẹ - Jump light
20:20 Nhảy nhẹ JJ - Light Jumping Jack
21:00 Vươn vai trái phải - Stretch Left Right
21:40 Nhảy đưa tay về trước - Jump Raise Front Hand
22:20 Nâng chân Nâng tay - Leg Raise Leg Hand
23:00 Xoay Thân Trên - Rotation Upper
23:40 Nhảy nhẹ - Jump light
24:20 Nhảy nhẹ JJ - Light Jumping Jack
25:00 Vươn vai trái phải - Stretch Left Right
25:40 Nhảy đưa tay về trước - Jump Raise Front Hand
26:20 Nâng chân Nâng tay - Leg Raise Leg Hand
27:00 Xoay Thân Trên - Rotation Upper
27:40 Nhảy nhẹ - Jump light
28:20 Nhảy nhẹ JJ - Light Jumping Jack
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#欢迎大家share此帖
我已完成✅接种两支疫苗超过一个月了,朋友羡慕我说,等雪隆步入复苏计划第二阶段,就可以出去堂食、进行休闲活动、国内旅游等等。
其实,我很想回乡看爸爸妈妈
我们也想带着孩子去国内旅行
我也期待跟好朋友聚餐聊天
我更想去品尝想念已久的美食
但是我更清楚知道
#我接种的疫苗它当初只是针对新冠肺炎原始病毒株研发,而现在病毒株已经变种到delta和lambda
而目前 #在雪隆感染delta病毒株的人很多
所以,在外活动和包括堂食是会有感染破口(气溶胶与飞沫传染)就算我已接种两剂疫苗,我还是有可能感染其它病毒株。
你说我怕死吗?
其实,我不害怕死亡。
我害怕不小心感染病毒后的身心伤害与身体并发症
我更害怕因我也受感染的人。
这一年多来我不敢接近住我家附近的弟弟弟媳与两个年幼的侄儿。
要彼此都安全与健康,唯有做好本分。为了我的家人、同事和朋友,我是不会冒这个风险。
我依然会坚持外出时戴上双口罩
(内层外科口罩,外层布口罩)和脸罩
保持人身距离、如非必要不外出、也不去人潮多的地方
随时消毒双手、不触摸眼睛、鼻子及嘴巴
继续与病毒“和平”共处。
如你有时间⬇️欢迎仔细阅读⬇️颜医生详细的解说⬇️
以下是来自 #马大儿童重症专科医生颜振胜副教授 的文字及图片
While our country is still yet to come out from the current pandemic crisis, the relaxation of SOP is announced against the advice of the health experts...
Many pseud experts are around, they are telling to relax but they are wearing N95 even at outdoors... Wasting the precious PPE with no good reason. Good leaders show by example and honest and transparent in their decision!
Din-in is allowed when you have received 2 doses of vaccines ??
The full protection comes in only 2 weeks after the 2nd dose of vaccination, and we need 70% of population to be vaccination in general but 90% for delta variants to have a safer environment !!!
US has a surge of infected cases of more 100,000 cases per day with more severity in both adults and children requiring hospital and ICU admissions...
So.....
1. Vaccine is not a silver bullet
2. U need to be sure of the people around have been vaccinated and they are not from the high risk group who can be infected at any time
3. Have only one safety bubble for now
4. Avoid going to crowded places especially if the ventilation ther is poor with air-cond environment.
5. DO NOT dine-in and talk without wearing mask at indoor environment with poor ventilation.
6. Wear a mask when you are at indoor especilly when ventilation is poor.
7. Improve workplace ventilation: open windows, install exhaust fans if needed to improve air flow by dilution, hepa air purifier to improve air quality, upper UVGI to kill viruses, basic surface cleaning, basic hygiene practices and hand hygiene, social distancing
8. Exercise and keep good immunity
No shortcut in fighting COVID-19 to stay safe and alive!
A package of protection is needed for all of of us to stay safe.
Take responsibility for yourself and your loved ones...The ever changing sop wouldn't protect you especially when they are not making sense and logic with no scientific basis!
Delta variant on the prowl; US cases, hospitalisations rose to six-month high
https://newswav.com/A2108_i3BTjf?s=A_8DJxQFJ
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You can choose your favorite beverage as a material, with a variety of flavors
*Click the text [cc] in the upper right corner of the video and the three dots in the upper right corner, and then click Translate, you can enable subtitles
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/come.188
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/come.188/
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**Material:
Cola soda (or juice) 450g
Sugar 40g
150g tapioca flour
[Hand Powder]: (Fried) (Prevent sticking)
20g cornstarch
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**Material:
Cola soda (or juice) 450g
Sugar 40g
Tapioca flour 150g
【Keanding Flour】:(Fried) (Prevent sticking)
Cornstarch 20g
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0:00 Two ways to eat cola desserts
0:13 Start production
3:48 Fen Kueh
4:12 sweet cake
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Easy cooking series:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFThU8PKal0YKLOgeuvZ90Ax8FUVTYXjP
Gourmet snack series:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFThU8PKal0Ycx1WvL4CYS1VbDnxFUiGg
White noise series:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFThU8PKal0bLjS_cWzNJLyAymnXxd9fU
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*Translation:
1. Cold Cake (Fen Kueh) (Banana Yeast)
2.Cool cake(jelly cake)
3. かっこいいケーキ(ゼリーケーキ)
4.쿨케이크 (젤리케이크)
5.Bánh mát (bánh thạch)
6.เค้กเย็น (เค้กเยลลี่)
7.कूल केक (जेली केक)
8.كول كيك (جيلي كيك)
9.Frigus crustulam (gelata crustulam)
10. صîëîنيûé ٍîًٍ (وهëهéيûé ٍîًٍ)
#粉粿的 practice
#凉糕的 Practice
#凉糕制造
#Cool cake
#jelly cake
upper hand 在 もちよ/ mochiyo Youtube 的最佳貼文
【モラトリアムコレクション 第1弾!】
「社会の歯車」
"a cog in the society"
texture : マイクロビーズクランチ
飾り : 歯車4つ(形は超ランダムです)
香り : 無難なフルーツミックス
サイズ : 8oz
価格 : 1580円
このスライムは6月6日日曜日の21時からの「モラトリアムコレクション」で、BASEにて販売します! 詳細は概要欄や今後公開される動画でご確認ください♪
BASEショップやインスタグラムのURLはこちらから → https://linktr.ee/mochiyoslime
0:00 〜 OP
0:30 〜 本編開始
the beginning of the main part
0:54 〜 触り始め
begin to touch
1:18 〜 容器から出す
take out of a container
1:21 〜 片手で触る
touch with one hand
1:35 〜 両手でガッツリ遊ぶ
play with both hands
4:14 〜 あたたたたたたいむ
mochiyo beam
4:17 〜 もこもこテクスチャーで遊ぶ
play with a fluffy texture
5:42 〜 もこもこにして容器に還元
fluff up and return to the container
5:46 〜 もこもこしゅわしゅわ
fluffy & sizzly
6:12 〜 もこもこしゅわしゅわ おすすめ!
fluffy & sizzly
【日本語 Japanese】
もちよすらいむ初のマイクロビーズスライムです。
アンティーク調の歯車を4つあしらいます。
このスライムは「社会の歯車になったら俺の良さが死んじゃう!」と駄々をこねて就活をサボる、ニート予備軍の青年のスライムです。
下の派手なクリアスライムが青年のユーモア溢れる多彩な個性で、上のマイクロビーズが「すでに社会に迎合した大人達からの圧」です。
さあ!モラトリアムを超えて、相反する2つの層が混ざります!
そこには一人の青年の葛藤があるのです!(もちよの脳内では)
こうやって混ざってく様子は、言わば人生の縮図です。
ああ……あっという間に混ざってしまいました…。
このスライムのミソは「混ざっても可愛い」というところです
クリアスライムに混ざっていたホログラムがいい味出してます
つまり、社会に迎合しても、青年の力強い個性は消えなかったのです!
という複雑な物語を考えながらこのスライムを作りました笑
素敵な個性のあるひとは、素敵な個性のある歯車になれる
歯車だとしても、自分らしくあれるなら悪くないじゃないか
私はこのことに気付いてからやっと就活を頑張る気になれました。
……いい加減テクスチャーについて話しますね笑
こちらはクリアベースのマイクロビーズスライムです。
ベース多めなので伸ばして遊びやすいです。
ビーズのおかげでバブル音が鳴りやすいです。
細かな粒々の感触はクセになる気持ちよさです。
手離れはビーズが落ちないギリギリを攻めました。
ですので「完璧にビーズは落ちません」とは言い切れません。
もしかしたら一粒か二粒くらい手に残る可能性があります。
その分いくらか手離れがよくなっているので、是非沢山遊んでいただきたいです!
アタタタタタタタァァッッ!!
実はこのスライム、とんでもなく膨らみます。
是非 5:43 に飛んでみてください笑 驚きの膨らみです笑
このバブル音がストレス発散になり、皆様の活力になりますように……
皆様お気づきの通り、今回の「モラトリアムコレクション」は、絶賛モラトリアム期にあった私自身の葛藤をスライムに落とし込んでいます。
今の私にしかできない、一回きりのコレクションですので、どうかお見逃しなく!
2.5倍くらいになりました!
このじゅわぱちと、もこもこもとても楽しいです。
細かいバブル音も気持ちがいいです。
香りはシェフの気まぐれフルーツミックスです。
甘くて無難な感じの香りが優しく香ります。
【英語 English】
Mochiyo slime's first micro-foamed bead slime.
Decorate slime with four antique cogs.
This is a slime of a young man who skips job hunting by saying "My goodness will die if I become a cog of the society!"
The lower layer of clear slime expresses the humorous personality of young men, and the upper layer of microbeads is "pressure from adults who have already accepted society."
Overcoming the Moratorium, the two conflicting layers mix!
There is a youth mental conflict there! (In mochiyo's brain)
The mixture of the two layers is the ultimate commentary on life.
Ah ... the two layers got mixed up in no time ...
The heart of this slime is that it is cute even when mixed.
The hologram that was mixed with the clear slime just tasted good.
The youth's powerful personality did not disappear even when he accepted the society!
I made this slime while thinking about such a difficult story lol
A unique and wonderful person can be a unique and wonderful cog.
Even if I'm a cog, it's not bad if I can be myself.
After I realized this, I finally felt like trying my best to find a job.
...... I'll talk about textures soon lol
This is a clear-based micro-foamed beads slime.
There is a lot of base slime,so it is easy to stretch and play.
Thanks to the beads, it is easy to make a bubble sound.
The feel of the micro-foamed beads is addictive.
I attacked the line where the beads do not fall out.
So I can't say "the beads won't fall off perfectly".
Maybe one or two beads will remain in your hand.
It's easier to peel off from your hands, so I hope you'll play a lot!
Hissatsu! Mochiyo Beam!!!!
Actually, this slime fluffs up ridiculously.
Please skip at 5:43 lol It's super fluffy lol
May this bubble sound release stress and energize everyone ...
As you may have noticed, this "Moratorium Collection" is a slime collection of my own mental conflict over the past year.
This is a one-time collection that only I can do now, so please don't miss it!
Inflated about 2.5 times!
This sizzless and fluffness are also very fun.
The fine bubble sound is also satisfying.
The scent is the chef's whimsical fruit mix.
A gentle scent with a sweet and safe feeling.
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サブチャンネル【もちよの研究室】はコチラ!
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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWmSQDBSNQTX6kpFm6lYLnw
Instagram, twitter, BASE shop, メルカリはこちら!
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スライムの提供についてはコチラ!
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Must know the hand washing formula, do you know it?
Share with others, protect yourself and your family
PS: It is recommended to wipe the upper part of the wrist with a dry paper towel from the fingers to the wrist, so as to prevent the upper part of the wrist from not being cleaned, and to carry the bacteria down~ The best situation is that the upper part of the wrist can be washed more and the whole part is clean Don't worry anymore
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0:00 clean hands
0:04 Dirt your hands with ink
0:18 Wet hands with water and wipe the hand soap completely
0:18 Clamp the bow inside and outside to stand up the wrist
1:34 Open the faucet with the back of your hand to rinse your hands
1:53 Wash your hands and rinse the tap with clean water
2:04 Finally, dry your hands with a paper towel
2:11 end screen
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