Halfway through 2021.. (a pretty lengthy post)
It's a time to remind me to relook at my goals and focus again😌 This would mean there will be some changes in my social media content and choosing what is good for me. Focusing on my work, trying to stabilize it and setting out the new plans.
Now when it comes to my kids... at every stage of their life, I'm always learning how to handle them and making changes to how we can all improve. Recently, I have adopted a reward point system, which I was against it previously. WHY?🤔 Because I did not feel the need to reward something which I feel that it's their responsibility or duty?
Sometimes, we do need to take a step back and try if it works WHEN ALL ELSE FAIL 🤣. Like I always tell my kid, "If you never try, you will never know."
So I started the rewards system. Initially, I used an app (@wearesmoresup) that was shared in my IGS, but I encountered a problem. I did not allow my kids to use gadgets, so the app became pointless even though I really love it and how I wish they have web version too.
Anyway, back to rewards, so I set the rules even on basic stuff, so they can feel that goals are easily achievable which in turns helps to motivate them on tougher work.
Steps on making rewards work
1. Give each other a time of adaptation (磨合期), like a week. So you will know what to adjust and the kids know how the system works.
2. Points are rewarded when they do it automatically. Once you have to remind them, they will not be rewarded any points.
3. Be fair. Especially if u have more than 1 child, both tasks and consequences are to set the same, unless the age gap are too big.
4. Encourage them to help remind each other on the task they need to do.
5. Pin it up at the living room or place where they spent most of their time.
6. Give simple rewards, like extra TV time, play time, outdoor activity instead of toys all the way.
I set their rewards according to the points. So whenever they hit the points, they can redeem it. So example:
Extra play time 20 points
Superpark 150 points
Science Centre 50 points
so if they have 200 points, they can choose to redeem any of the rewards above.
Ok, that's about the rewards. Here comes the schedule.
All along, I did the schedule just for myself and one to put outside. But this time round, I made a slight change, I do for the girls too. So each one of them have their own schedule chart. They will have to follow the schedule that is given to them.
It's just less than 5 days of trying how this whole thing works, but so far I have seen slight improvement especially on Xin He. No more screaming at her to wake up in the morning. That's is very important, because we all want to start our day nice. 🤭
When I shared about the rewards and schedule in my IGs, many people has requested for my template, so I have put up the template here lnk.bio/missyqiqi. Feel free to download and use it. Hope it helps, and welcome any suggestions or ideas 💡 that we can all improve together!
同時也有27部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過21萬的網紅Ghib Ojisan,也在其Youtube影片中提到,Which has better snacks and food, Singapore or Japan? Today I tried out 15 different food from these two countries to compare which one is better! Man...
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本週PSI重裝祭再開🎀🎀🎀
戰術蘿草莓魔法陣黑甜登場🍓🍓
一直很喜歡這兩種不同元素的結合方式👾
物理系&魔法系同時擁有勒勒勒⚜⚜
嘛...說起這幾年來我最喜歡的幾件PC背心🖤🖤
PSI PX1絕對是其中數一數二的存在(((
無論重量 剪裁 舒適度或是擴充性都很符合我的需求
也經歷了不少LE單位的實際採用👊
有機會的話多弄件黑色版的來玩玩好惹💖💖
最近有點Multicam視覺麻痺ww
PSI Gear heavy duty configuration again🎀🎀🎀
Tact-Lo strawberry magic circle🍓🍓
~~~~~darkness sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeet🖤🖤
I've been in love with the combination of these two elements👾
That means having both physical and magical types simultaneously⚜
Well...when it comes to my favorite plate carrier these years, PX1 from PSI Gear is definitely one of those on the top of my list
Weight, cut, comfort and modularity all meet my requirements
It's also adopted by lots of LE agencies👊
Maybe I should get my hands on a black one💖💖
Just getting a little bit tired of Multicam recently lol
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Primary 6. Primary 3. Kindergarten 2.
Yup, these are the journeys you three are embarking on in 2021. Being year end babies and having parents who are not very tall, you all told me you are still one of the shortest in class. Haha. But you know what, that's really okay. What is important is to be good, kind, responsible and friendly, and make lots of happy memories in your schooling years.
Glad to see your smiles today and looking forward to hearing more about your new classmates, new teachers and new adventures too. Oh yes, and counting down to March where we will welcome the baby into our family and things are gonna get so chaotic yet so exciting too.
P.S. The girls successfully woke at 6am and reached school by 7am as the big sister had to report for duty. It was still dark on the road and the sun hadn't even risen yet. Haha. It's a contrast compared to the holidays and well, just gotta get used to my alarms ringing one after another again. Now to wake the boy and bring him to preschool! Woohoo. Happy start of school, everyone!
#ahappymum #anewbeginning #happy2021
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Which has better snacks and food, Singapore or Japan? Today I tried out 15 different food from these two countries to compare which one is better! Many people might find Japan the obvious winner, but trust me, Singapore got so many good stuffs too!
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09:06 | Marutai Ramen https://shopee.prf.hn/l/7QqNqY2
10:04 | IRVINS https://shopee.prf.hn/l/KNkyzON
11:59 | Calbee Chips | https://shopee.prf.hn/l/KVX8VOL
13:19 | Hitachino Yuzu Saison Du Japon https://shopee.prf.hn/l/6Woqobj
14:03 | Lion Brewery Straits Pale Ale https://shopee.prf.hn/l/KXRjVJR
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Not to Be "Trumpt" Down but Make Trump Down——To Dear American Brothers and Sisters
把川普做掉,別被川普做掉!——致美國兄弟姊妹們
My dear American friends,
as Nancy Pelosi called the protests in Hong Kong last year “a beautiful sight to behold,”
you should be proud that you are giving more and more beautiful sights throughout your country,
in Minneapolis, Los Angles, New York, Washington D.C., and every part where people with any sense of justice live,
which makes America great and beautiful again.
美國朋友們,正如貴國眾議院議長所說:
「去年在香港的抗爭是一道美麗的風景線」,
你們應該感到驕傲,
如今你們也正為貴國到處拉起美麗的風景!
從明尼亞波利斯、洛杉磯、紐約、華府,
以及任何有正義感的人民居住的地方!
這才真是讓美國再次偉大、美麗!
However, these are facing a fatal crisis now.
You are going to be "Trumpt" down for your disobedience to his "American value,"
which claims that all men are born equal but some are more equal than others.
然而,這些美麗的風景如今卻面臨致命的危機。
你們即將就要被「川普」掉,只因你們違逆他的「美國價值」——
那就是號稱人人生而平等,卻始終有人比其他人更「平等」。
While the protesters in Hong Kong and Taiwan could break into the legislative building successfully with the matirial and spiritual support from your government,
you American people should only be “greeted” with the most vicious dog and most ominous weapons from Trump.
當港、台的抗爭者都能在貴國物質及精神的援助下成功攻入立法機構,
你們美國人民卻只能被川普以最兇狠的狗及武器伺候。
While he told you that he is going to make America great again,
he killed 100 thousand American people first for his incompetence in pandemic prevention,
mostly of whom are laboring-class.
當他告訴你要讓美國再次偉大,
他已先因疏於防疫害死了十萬名美國人——絕大多數是勞苦大眾。
While your country usually claims its duty to "free" other peoples,
it seems to be built only for the white and rich,
repressing you Amercan people with racism and capitalism
and making more and more "George Floyds" who can't breathe anytime.
當貴國經常標榜以解放他國人民為職志,
這個國家卻似乎只為白人及富人而存在,
並始終不斷地用種族主義及資本主義壓迫人民,
造成一個又一個George Floyd不能呼吸。
Therefore, the beautiful sights in your country were only kept for three days.
Then the police fire and the military force are destroying them.
因此,貴國美麗的風景僅僅維持了三天。
軍警的槍炮接著就開始毀滅這些風景。
My dear American brothers and sisters!
My dear African Americans, Chinses Americans, Latin Americans, Asian Americans, and all Americans of all races!
All human beings who behold justice stand with you!
A single spark can start a prairie fire!
美國各族兄弟姊妹們!
非裔、華裔、拉丁裔、亞裔......各族裔的美國人民!
所有正義的人都與你們站在一起!
星星之火可以燎原!
So rise up for your own liberty and dignity!
Unite togethet to beat racism in any form!
It's time for you to make the White House not only for the white and the Wall Steet!
It's time for you to make America great and beautiful indeed!
It's time for you not to be "Trumpt" down but make Trump down!
起來為你們的自由及尊嚴奮鬥吧!
團結起來打倒一切形式的種族主義!
現在是讓白宮不再只為白人及華爾街服務的時候了!
現在是讓美國真正偉大且美麗的時候了!
現在是你們別再被川普做掉,而是把川普做掉的時候了!
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