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The world really has evolved several stages since 2020, and also since the beginning of my career- and that’s the beauty of it all. Nothings permanent, everything changes and newer, more exciting things keep coming into the mix.
Tomorrow my baby will turn 6 months. What a massive milestone, for her and for myself. As I am learning everyday to be a better mother, I am also learning to become a stronger me. I have been wanting to update fans and friends on how I am doing - and yet every time I try, I just feel like “oh gosh. Where do I even start?” And before that thought process is over, I would be busy either feeding my baby, changing a diaper, soothing her, or putting her to sleep.
The first few months of my baby’s life felt like it flew by so quickly yet at the same time pre-baby feels like a lifetime ago - everything in my world has shifted. My whole focus was her - I was breastfeeding, (which, by the way, is HEAPS harder than giving birth), making sure she’s eating well, sleeping well, and pooping well. And, understandably, paranoid about any kind of germs in the house. There was no difference between day and night, it’s just wake time and sleep time. It made no difference for me what day of the week it was, what weather it was, what’s happening with my industry, or with the world other than the daily Covid news, because I just needed to stay home make sure that my little newborn is far far far away from covid. I barely saw friends, and hadn’t eaten in a restaurant for north of half a year. As I took care of her, I barely had time to wash my own face, go to the bathroom, or sleep for a long stretch of time. I also didn’t have enough breastmilk, so I would sit there and try to pump the life out of me, just so I could provide half of a meal for my baby. I tried everything - but I do know that low supply isn’t uncommon. So- as glamorous as mom life can appear to be on social media, don’t be fooled. It’s humbling, but it’s also life-altering and the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done.
Emotionally, I’ve been so over the moon and happy. I enjoy spending time with my newborn baby, she makes me giggle and smile - even though I wish my mother was here to share old baby stories of me, and experience all of this together. But having a daughter really makes you feel more connected to your mother on a completely different level - I just know she’s happy and proud of me from up above. I’ve taught her how to semi-feed herself, how to fall asleep by herself, teaching her still how to roll, sit, and semi-stand (crazy!!), and I’ve played her tunes on my guitar like she’s the only fan in my fan club.
I also consider myself blessed that I never had issues with postpartum depression, despite suffering from mommy’s wrist. I had an amazing relationship with my 陪月/月嫂 who helped me immensely more than words can say. I have not been able to see my side of the family for over a year, but I’m blessed to have amazing in-laws and fellow mommy friends to share experiences with.
Nothing has been easy, but I am the most grateful for my husband - he was always by my side when I needed him. We change diapers together, we bathe our daughter, we sing to her together, and read bedtime stories to her together. I can safely say, that I’m MUCH happier than when I was towards the end of my music label contract. There have been some dark years there.
Hitting 6 months is a big deal for me. I can safely pat myself on my back and reminisce on THE single most biggest achievement of my life, my daughter. Obviously, 6 months is not long in the grand scheme of things, ie. her entire life ahead, but it is a big milestone for me mentally, and finally I feel it’s time to really focus on my own personally healing. I completely lost myself in taking care of her, and yet I felt the most alive and the most needed - and I found a new me in the process. It’s a beautiful kind of chaos and I embraced all of it. But yes, now it’s time for me again. finally.
Hitting this 6 month mark, I have decided to now wean from breastfeeding, take care of my body better, drink some wine, and write more songs for real. (If my daughter allows, lol). I am choosing to give myself some more me-time, read a book, get my nails done, and eventually get a haircut too. And.. start to think about dieting and training. Moms don’t get enough credit for deciding consciously to not slim down yet because they gotta breastfeed. But- with that said, all moms have their own struggles that no one knows of, so never judge!
A part of the stress that comes with social media sometimes, is actually comments on moms’ sizes, even praises of “wow you slimmed down fast!” As though that’s the most important thing of all. The toxic culture pains me and I just know it’s not the point. For me, it really was a conscious decision, just to be a mother first, above all else, at least for these first six months of her little life. And looking at her, strong, happy and healthy, I am truly so so proud of her for her growth and development.
And finally.. I’m finally ready to think about myself again as a musician. I know I’m lucky to be able to have a choice of being with her for 6 months; I count my blessings everyday. But as songwriting wheels become rustier, and as the industry evolves, I’m quite frankly not sure yet what a singer-songwriter mom looks like. I struggle to name artists in the Chinese speaking world that I could reference from - but I promise I’ll continue to bring music to those ears that still choose to listen.
I still hope that one day - little Naomi can see mama on stage. Looking down at her as she sleeps, I always imagine what she would be like as she grows up - and I hope that one day she will be able to pursue what she loves to do and focus on the truly meaningful things in life.
Thank you for reading through this thinking-out-loud random catch-up session blog thing. I’m just so glad I survived 6 months of motherhood. This stuff ain’t easy! Sending love and thank you all for the support, as always. More updates later!
xRobynn
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This was taken during the first check up for Baby #4 back in August when I was 8 weeks pregnant.
I was all alone at the clinic and had to wait for over two hours before I got to see my gynae. There were butterflies in my stomach and that anxiety was aggravated by the fact that it was freezing cold and I had forgotten to bring along my sweater. I tried to distract myself by walking around, doing leg lifts, reading the papers and scrolling mindlessly on social media.
There was only one thought and one hope on my mind... "Please be safe, Baby, and let Mama see that flickering dot".
I still vividly recall how dreadful it was when we were greeted by an empty sac, a lack of heartbeat and the words "Your baby is gone" when I went through a miscarriage years ago. The pain, the hurt, the sense of loss, the immense guilt and regret - it gets buried over time but never goes away. It was one of the darkest periods of my life and one that you have to go through to truly understand.
So this time round, all I was hoping was to see that heartbeat, for me to know that the baby is there and is doing fine. Boy or girl, really, it doesn't matter as long as the baby is healthy. That was all I could ask and hope for. And when I spotted that flicker, a huge flood of relief swept over me and I couldn't help but smile as I stared at the screen and saw my baby for the first time. Well, we subsequently failed one of the markers during the Oscar test and were told there was a chance of abnormality and risk involved. But that is a story for another day.
Today, I am just happy to share that we have crossed the 20-week mark and are doing well. I have been feeling the flutters and that is just one of the most amazing sensations ever. I will be doing a detailed scan tomorrow and will share more updates soon. Oh yes, and the gender reveal that many of you have been asking me about, it will be up this week, yeah?
#ahappymum #pregnancy #hellobaby #ultrasound #feelingthankful
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#6สิ่งที่หมอเด็กคิดว่าตัวเองรู้ก่อนที่ตัวเองจะกลายเป็นแม่
1.#วันแรกที่พาลูกกลับบ้าน_เป็นวันที่แย่มากจริงๆ
จะด้วยฮอร์โมน หรืออะไรก็แล้วแต่ แต่หมอพบว่าตอนนั้น
สมองมัน blank จะให้ลูกนอนตรงไหน เรานอนตรงไหน สามีนอนตรงไหน...
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1.#วันแรกที่พาลูกกลับบ้าน_เป็นวันที่แย่มากจริงๆ
Hormones or whatever. But the doctor found that it was then.
The brain is blank. Where do you sleep? Where do you sleep? Where do you sleep? Where do you sleep
How to breastfeed in the middle of the night? How to do it? (Surgical wound is hurt)
I remember sitting here crying... confused.
Why are you crying... Grandma is confused. Husband is confused.
Doctor thinks it's because of the thought
I'm a pediatric doctor. I can handle it
So it makes us careless
We never prepared a house preparation, a place to place.
And most importantly, we never prepared ourselves.
Even tho it's been so long...
I still remember my failures until now.
2.#การให้ลูกเข้าเต้าไม่ยาก_แต่มัน_โคตรยาก
Before having a baby.
The doctor also has to teach the mother who just gave birth to bring the baby in the breast.
Gotta get the right poses
Gotta let the kids eat when they start signaling hungry.
If you speak theoretically and teach the doctor mother well done.
No lack of defects.
But when I put my own baby in my boobs.
What is this... Kid keeps pushing. Smoking face to face crying for hours.
Finally, doctor has to choose between
Let the baby cry because she is hungry.
But stand up to get into boobs
Or to be full to establish trust in this world.
According to psychology, kids who have studied.
Whether it's a splendid or not patient or an excuse that I want you to be a child to trust the world.
The mist is becoming the mother of a full pump.
And since then the doctor never said the word
#It's not difficult with any mother again.
Doctors say it's difficult, but if you intend to do it, you can do it. Smile to support
3.#สิ่งที่ตำราเลี้ยงเด็กเขียน_เค้าไม่ได้เขียนถึงลูกเราไง
After having a baby salad, a lot of stickiness to a textbook.
What the doctor is very upset about.
Sleep schedule and kid's milk meal
Kids will start sleeping long at 4-6 months old.
Let us practice to finish the late night milk.
REALLY!!!
At 4 months, my kid still wake up every 2-3 hours. At night. At night.
And after 6 months, the textbook doesn't tell us that when teeth grow.
Kids will hurt and wake up crying late night again.
At 8-12 months, when you play with fun, you can sleep and sleep all night long.
Some time find new talents in the middle of the day
Like know you can suck your toes and get excited. Get up to see toes show at 2 am.
The textbook is.... not wrong, but he didn't write about our kids..
Every child is different from birth.
4.#สังคมออนไลน์เป็นดาบสองคม
The doctor knows how to feel after having a baby.
When I was a social media mom that included those who had the same problems.
People who have passed that problem already.
It's like a guru to introduce a freshman.
There is good and bad because there is a new knowledge.
The doctor can't find a textbook read.
How to play nipples, how to treat nipples, white dot, etc.
Damn... Data lines like doctors who need to find textbooks, research readings, rely on these information.
The experienced one comes to tell.
Well it helps us a lot
But it's getting weird.... right where
There is a wrong knowledge set... It's dangerous.
But when someone comes to support me... this information will become.
A textbook for many more people
Which doctor has been in to fix information. Tell me the right thing.
The result is.... weak and lose.
Hey!... health safety information
#มันใช้ระบบโหวตไม่ได้
But doctors understand the group process.
So.. if you want to tell the right thing, you have to create your own space.
So I opened the page.. end.
And hopefully the knowledge from our profession that we want to share
Sincerely, it will be direct to mother and benefit children.
5.#การใช้ชีวิตอยู่กับเด็กทั้งวันทั้งคืน_เหมือนเราใช้ชีวิต #กับผู้หญิงก่อนประจำเดือนมาที่เมาเหล้า
I feel like I can't sleep.
Some scenes reflect us too.
When I'm a mother, I read psychology books.
Seriously reading child development textbook
A lot of parenting genre books.
So much for real
Doctor finds that... Reading helps us have good information. Ready for situations.
But the above information is
We need to develop our own positive thinking system.
Because when you have a negative emotion, it takes a positive energy to use.
If there were only theories in the head then.
But positive energy we don't have. We are irritated. We are upset.
We can't raise a positive child.... We can't control ourselves.
We must have a strong heart, but gentle, kind.
I have been raising kids for 5 years. I have found that I am very into Dharma
Because everything Buddha says is true and it's the solution to every problem.
6.#การเป็นแม่ไม่ได้หมายความว่า_เราต้องทิ้งความเป็นตัวเอง
There are some times when the doctor is suffering.
In fact, I am suffering because of my own expectations.
And suffering how other people will see us.
So many things that are polished with kids.
What we want you to be is not that it's good for you.
#แต่มันทำให้เราดูเป็นแม่ที่ดี
What a heavy thing to do with a 2-3 year old
I will choose the dress. Top pattern, bottom pattern, shirt, and neck.
We think it's not pretty....
If you focus on the kid, you are happy.
If you focus on us... wear this outfit.
Others must think that mother doesn't care about kids.
Here's a sample of the little things we often contradict with kids.
We will imagine the good mother that we think (go by ourselves) that society or people around expect us to be.
So we try to be that person.... but peak is
We tried so hard
But no commission to decide if it's done #good enough
I'm sad and confused. I almost forgot who I am.
Come back to settle down....
It's us, kids have to learn how we are.
Doctor can say that
Who wants to propose to doctor's daughter?
The doctor has to say that the daughter's husband is about to expect her daughter to be a housewife... you will be disappointed.
Because when he was a kid.
Mother is not a good example for him.
He always eats with rice with Amma's cooking.
The good thing is that he has a sense of humor and doesn't mind the mistake... he got it from mom 🤣🤣
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This is what the doctor wants to tell.
The doctor served as a pediatric doctor for 7 years before having a baby.
But just the first few months of parenting myself.
Make doctor #s̄ả think we know
Really we know very little about it.
.
Before being a mother, doctor is considered a good child doctor.
Textbook that pediatric doctor uses for exams all over the world. How about it?
The doctor recommended the mother to ask for counseling.
Because we also tell the information we know is right.
When I'm a mother, I'm a mother.... Doctor has learned that.
The numbers we hold firmly are just the average he chooses that information to be childish.
But in fact, each child is different.
.
The most important thing that a child doctor should give to a mother who asks for parenting advice.
Not a number that is the middle of data.
But it's a #encouragement, understanding of the problems he has to face.
And the power he receives will make him face his own problems.
.
If there are any new mothers who are not confident in childcare.
Doctor wants to confirm that everyone is.
And now my baby is 5 years old
The doctor still has to learn many things and still learning more every day.
.
Let's learn this together and doctor thinks that the page that doctor wants to open up.
Giving someone a benefit no more or less
.
Dr. Pam
P.S. Child doctor in the article is the only doctor himself.
Doctor, other children may know more than doctors know.
And he may be better than the doctor.
Doctor thinks it's an experience sharing.Translated
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Lyrics:
Not a single day goes by
度日如年
Show me what is through my mind
告訴我 我的腦海裡到底在想些什麼
I know somebody I can't deny
我知道你我的感情已結束了 但我無法否認
I'm still missing you
自己仍思念著你 無法忘懷
And I'm torn cause I'm hella frustrated
我心碎不已深感挫敗
I know we had something special baby
親愛的 我知道我們也曾有獨一無二的愛戀
But now the fact is you're gone for good
但事到如今 你已永遠離去
And I don't know what to do
我失去了生活的方向
I try to stay occupied
我試著用忙碌去麻痹自己
I try to put you all the side
我試著將一切拋之腦後
I try and try and try and try
我試著一遍又一遍
Still it's no use
但仍然無濟於事
Don't know what's going with me
我不知道自己究竟是怎麼了
But all I know it's haunting me
但我清楚的是你仍縈繞我心頭
I need your love to set me free
我需要你的愛讓我自由
Listen to me
請聽我說
Do you still think of me? baby baby
親愛的 你是否仍會想起我呢?
Cause you on my mind is driving me crazy, crazy
因為你是我唯一的愛 讓我朝思暮想
Are you finally over me
你是否終究對我釋懷了?
You can tell me the truth
你大可對我訴諸事實
Or do you still love me
亦或許說你還深愛著我
The way that I still love you
如同我仍對你心心念念那般
Just the other day I've seen you
那日我碰見了你
You caught me for a little while
我們彼此待了一小會
You told me you were doing just fine
你告訴我你近來無恙
Well it was good to see you smile
真開心看著你滿臉笑意
Memories running through my head
往日回憶於我腦海中穿梭
Feelings coming back, oh yeah
好像又回到了過去那般
Yeah it hurts again
又讓我心痛不已
You're happy with someone else
看著你與別人在一起很開心
I try to stay occupied
我試著用忙碌去麻痹自己
I try to put you all the side
我試著將一切拋之腦後
I try and try and try and try
我試著一遍又一遍
Still it's no use
但仍然於事無補
Don't know what's going on with me
我不知道自己究竟是怎麼了
But all I know it's haunting me
但我清楚的是你仍縈繞我心頭
I need your love to set me free
我需要你的愛讓我自由
Listen to me,oh baby
請聽我說
Do you still think of me? baby baby
親愛的 你是否仍會想起我呢?
Cause you on my mind is driving me crazy, crazy
因為你是我唯一的愛 讓我為之瘋狂
Are you finally over me
你是否終究對我釋懷了?
You can tell me the truth
你大可對我訴諸事實
Or do you still love me
亦或許說你還深愛著我
The way that I still love you
如同我仍對你心心念念那般
Oh I know
噢 我明白
That I let love slip away
我自作自受 錯失真愛
And I'm going insane all because I want you back
我已然癡狂 只想將你挽回
I need you back
我需要你重回我身旁
This is the biggest regret
失去你是我此生最大的遺憾
I'll ever have to face oh yeah
我會用盡一輩子去懺悔面對
Do you still think of me? baby baby
親愛的 你是否仍會想起我呢?
Cause you on my mind is driving me crazy, crazy
因為你是我唯一的愛 讓我難以忘懷
Are you finally over me
你是否終究對我釋懷了?
You can tell me the truth
你大可對我訴諸事實
Or do you still love me
亦或許說你還深愛著我
The way that I still love you
如同我仍對你心心念念那般
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"Ariana Grande, Social House - Boyfriend" Lyrics:
I'm a motherfuckin' train wreck
I don't wanna be too much
But I don't wanna miss your touch
And you don't seem to give a fuck
I don't wanna keep you waiting
But I do just what I have to do
And I might not be the one for you
But you ain't about to have no boo, 'cause
I know we be so complicated
But we be so smitten, it's crazy
I can't have what I want, but neither can you
You ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
But you don't want me to see nobody else
And I don't want you to see nobody
But you ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
But you don't want me to touch nobody else (nobody)
Baby, we ain't gotta tell nobody
Even though you ain't mine
I promise the way we fight
Make me honestly feel like we just in love
'Cause, baby, when push comes to shove
Damn, baby, I'm a train wreck, too (too)
I lose my mind when it comes to you
I take time with the ones I choose
And I don't want to smile if it ain't from you, yeah
I know we be so complicated
Lovin' you sometimes drive me crazy
'Cause I can't have what I want and neither can you (oh no)
You ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
But you don't want me to see nobody else
And I don't want you to see nobody
But you ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
But you don't want me to touch nobody else (nobody)
Baby, we ain't gotta tell nobody
I wanna kiss you (yeah), don't wanna miss you (yeah)
But I can't be with you 'cause I got issues
Yeah, on the surface, seem like it's easy
Careful with words, but it's still hard to read me
Stress high when the trust low (mmh)
Bad vibes, where'd the fun go? (Ohh)
Try to open up and love more (love more)
Try to open up and love more
If you were my boyfriend
And you were my girlfriend
I probably wouldn't see nobody else
But I can't guarantee that by myself
You ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend, you ain't my boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend, I ain't your girlfriend)
But you don't want me to see nobody else (nobody)
And I don't want you to see nobody
But you ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend, you know you ain't my boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend, yeah, mmh)
But you don't want me to touch nobody else (nobody)
Baby, we ain't gotta tell nobody (oh yeah)
You ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend)
But you don't want me to see nobody else
And I don't want you to see nobody
But you ain't my boyfriend (boyfriend)
And I ain't your girlfriend (girlfriend, yeah)
But you don't want me to touch nobody else (nobody)
Baby, we ain't gotta tell nobody
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