關於 伴life partner ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

敬 自由/ 歡歡與小黃

樂手及知名YouTuber歡歡，這幾年不論感情是否順利，都勇敢地將這些故事公開讓大家知道，而這讓他們也成為台灣LGBT+年輕族群的指標人物。台灣在2019年通過同婚專法後，歡歡與她前任是第一批結婚的同性伴侶，雖然月有陰晴圓缺、人有悲歡離合，但就像其他異性伴侶一樣，歡歡並不隱藏過去。
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現在，我們很高興歡歡的感情又再次圓滿，外交部今年聯合國推案影片《敬 自由》中，邀請歡歡及她現任伴侶小黃講出他們對台灣婚姻平權的想法：
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『如果我們都希望一個更好的世界到來
至少更多的愛要能夠被自由地對待
台灣即使是亞洲第一個(同性婚姻合法國家)
也還是有太多美好的故事，是過去不被認同的秘密
其實我們的相處不會因為法案通過有什麼改變
但心裡真的踏實好多
不再需要更多勇氣就可以在陽光下相愛，這樣很好』
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若聯合國的重要任務之一是要讓國家尊重人民的權利
台灣的夥伴價值，值得聯合國重視。
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To Freedom / Huan-huan and Xiaohuang
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Musician and YouTuber Huan-huan has bravely put her love life in the spotlight over the last few years, warts and all, serving as a role model to young LGBT+ people in #Taiwan. She and her former partner were one of the first same-sex couples to get married after the legislation passed in Taiwan. She didn’t cower from showing us that, just like straight couples, not every relationship is built to last, however.

We’re happy to see that she’s moved on, and we featured Huan-huan and her current partner Xiaohuang in our promotional short for #UNGA76. In her own words:

“If we’re all hoping for a better world, then people should be free to love in more ways! Even if Taiwan was first in Asia to legalize same-sex marriage, too many beautiful stories in the past were left unsung and forced into secrecy. Our relationships won’t change with the passing of the law, but it offers a sense of security and it takes less courage now to love in the open. This is good.”

If the UN states part of its mission as encouraging countries around the world to respect the rights of their people, Taiwan's vision of global partnership can serve as a valuable reference.

#UNGA76
#HearTaiwan
#WorkingTogether
#FreedomForAll
#UNGlobalGoals
#TaiwanCanHelp
#RespectTheRightsOfPeople
#ReducedInequalities
#MyTaiwanMyPride

最好的自己不在未來，就在現在。

認真回想，以前我好像在每一段關係中都是在扮演某一個角色，不由自主的在為每個對象做調整。不只有在戀愛上，有時候可能跟朋友、工作夥伴都是，尤其是在前輩面前，常常我都會本能反應似的改變自己。聲音要甜一點嗎？笑話要低級一點嗎？從穿衣服就可以看出，我今天是要跟誰吃飯。雖然是微調，但透露出了一件事，我好像不夠喜歡真正的自己，所以才會擔心大家也不會喜歡真正的我。我告訴自己即使累，但如果持續努力，有一天就能變成大家都喜歡的Lara。

久而久之我和世界的相處模式只有「由外到內」，會依照別人對我的反應去斷定我的下一步。大家會覺得我很好相處，我卻越來越不快樂。現在我慢慢開始懂了，原來我把順序弄反了。我該優先處理的是自己內心的感受，其他人買不買單，其實跟你一點關係都沒有。就像找另外一半，如果我跟夢中情人在一起，但我根本無法在他面前做自己，最後還是會走不下去。

我現在33歲，So What? 終於懂，「當下的自己」才是人生時間軸上最重要的！

對了，有人好奇這次「{}」的意思嗎？簡單說是「大括號」，在數學運算式中稱作「空集合」。數學不好的人就想像一個清空的行李箱吧。「空」不是無，而是無限可能。括號還有另外一個更好懂的意思，就是「優先處理」。將過去整理過後的自己，回歸純粹，態度成熟自信！(失戀後重新出發的人應該很有感觸吧！🤣)

Your best self is not in the future, but in the Now.

Looking back, I seem to have been playing a role in almost every relationship I was ever in. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. Whether it was with friends or colleagues (especially seniors), I would modify myself almost instinctively. Should my voice be sweeter? My jokes dirtier? If you wanted to know who I was eating with that day, all you had to do was look at the clothes I was wearing.

The changes were subtle, but they still reflected a truth: I didn’t feel like the real me was enough so I was worried that other people would also find her lacking. I told myself that if I just kept working at it, I would someday become a version of Lara that everyone accepted.

Eventually I only knew how to get my cues from the external world. I would always base my next step on feedback I got from others. Most people considered me easy to get along with, but I grew more and more unhappy.

I think I had it all wrong. My first priority should have been listening to my inner voice. Whether or not other people agree with it is not in my control nor of my concern. Take looking for a partner. Even if I found the person of my dreams, it would never last if I couldn’t be myself around them.

I am 33 years old. So What? I finally understand that "the present self" is the most important thing on the timeline of life! It’s time to prioritize me!

By the way, is anyone curious about the meaning of "{}" this time? Besides the more commonly known representation of parentheses as prioritization, these curly brackets are called “the empty set”. The empty what? If like me, math is not your strongest suit, think of it as an empty suitcase. "Empty" doesn’t mean nothing, but infinite possibilities! What will you fill your life with this time?

2021全新專輯《來者何人{}》
數位收聽：https://LaraLiang.lnk.to/DearYou2

<再也沒有你> 陳勢安 Andrew Tan
數位收聽：https://kkbox.fm/Iss26l

#Lara梁心頤2021全新專輯二部曲 #來者何人{} 全球發行
#再也沒有你 #NoMoreU #SoWhat30

讓我為你介紹我帥氣忠誠的螢幕伴侶 "Uncle " 。🐎
這次拍攝可以盡情的騎馬奔馳絕對是當中的亮點之一。
我記得當我第一次跟導演見面時，他問我騎馬還可以嗎？因為我會有很多場騎馬的鏡頭，我非常興奮地告訴他，我小時候有的一大部分的時間都在練習騎馬。
我第一次騎馬時跟我父親一起光著身子騎馬，我那時已經兩歲了。�我11歲時從加勒比海搬回法國時媽媽很擔心我，因為在島嶼上可以每天享受大自然，然而突然要適應城市生活並不容易。一開始我根本不想要想穿鞋子！哈哈. 所以她每個週末和暑假都送我去一個牧場練習騎馬，在那裡我開始愛上了騎馬。
那裡是我的快樂天堂。在那我學習了如何與馬交流那是一種非常不可思議的感覺。
需要很多信任，耐心，同理心和尊重。
這裡有一些我們拍攝前訓練時的鏡頭。�他們都做得很棒！在幾堂課後可以表現的如此自然和自信是非常不容易的！特別是在很多人的拍攝現場，開闊的大自然環境中。
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我真的很鼓勵有孩子的家庭去牧場體驗一下。就像我剛說的， 孩子們可以從中學到很多東西，自信， 尊重， 耐心等等......及生活中其它非常重要的技能。
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今天晚上9點別忘了收看 斯卡羅 SEQALU：Formosa 1867
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I introduce you my handsome loyal partner on screen “Uncle”. 🐎
One of the highlights of that project was definitely to be able to ride a lot.
I remember when I first met with the director, he asked me if I would be comfortable riding a horse as I will have lot of scenes riding, and I was so excited to tell him that I spent a part of my childhood practicing horse back riding.
-�The first time I rode a horse bareback, I was 2 years old with my father. �After I moved back to France from Caribbean at 11, my mum was worry for me, it was not easy to leave my island where I would enjoy nature everyday and then adapt to the city life. I didn’t even want to wear shoes ! haha.�So she sent me every weekend and summer break to a ranch where I practiced and felt in love with horse back riding.
It was my happy place. Learning how to enter into communion with a horse is such an incredible feeling.
It’s a lot of trust, patience, empathy and respect.
Anyway, here are some shots of us training before filming. �They all did amazing! Being so natural and confident just after few lessons isn’t easy at all! Especially on a movie set, in nature, where you have so many people around.
-�I really encourage families with kids to go to a ranch and experience it. Kids can learn so much from it, as I’ve said, confidence, respect, patience.. so many feelings and skills important in life.
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See you tonight 9pm for two new episodes of Seqalu!

新冠肺炎疫情改變了我們許多，不論是生活和工作模式都受到了影響。Ericsson讓8萬5千名員工在家工作，並提供免費的家具給員工，打造安全又舒適的居家工作環境。IKEA很榮幸成為Ericsson的全球合作夥伴，同來自瑞典的IKEA和Ericsson，分享安全性，可持續性，創新和家庭等價值觀，這使此次的合作更加契合！IKEA是居家佈置的專家，透過提供最佳解決方案，解決在家工作所面臨的挑戰，並創造個人化的居家工作空間。

The COVID-19 pandemic has changed work/life patterns for many of us. Ericsson is migrating 85,000 employees to work from home and also provide free furniture to support their employee to build up a safe and comfortable home office environment. IKEA is honored to be Ericsson's global partner to provide good quality furniture to their employees. IKEA and Ericsson are both from Sweden and share values of safety, sustainability, innovation, and family, making this a perfect match! IKEA is the home furnishing specialist. We know the challenges of working from home and how to overcome them. The best solution will be tightened in the existing home environment to create your personal home working space.

✨本集來賓：James Hu - CEO & founder / Jobscan.co
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jameshujobscan/

- 成績不好也能創業成功當上老闆，只要開始努力都不算晚，謹記成功還是失敗都是自己的 | Grades don’t determine your future, your attitude does.
- 自省的力量：有策略的努力，比低頭苦幹更重要！| Importance of self introspection, work hard with the big picture direction in mind
- 創業家最強大的武器－大於常人的動機 | Motivations of an entrepreneur
- 使用者是你最重要的投資人 | Your customers are your most important investors
- 冥想、Think Week ，你能每天靜下十分鐘思考嗎 | Meditation, think week, 10 minutes a day
- 凡事先開始才有以後 | Do things that don’t scale

📚 Books Mentioned:
- Rich Dad, Poor Dad 富爸爸·窮爸爸
- 7 Habits of Highly Effective People 與成功有約

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(00:01:15) 用三個字形容自己 | 3 words describe yourself
(00:02:26) 求學過程 沒考上 再花兩年轉學進夢想大學 | Not getting into school wanted, 2 year journey to transfer
(00:04:15) 成績不行 靠工作經驗來補 | Work experiences to compensate bad grades
(00:04:50) 免費工作 只為了零售轉白領 | Working for free to learn a skill
(00:05:46) 不屈不饒的申請Microsoft實習 | Getting internship at Microsoft
(00:07:10) 學校帶給你的無形幫助 | Intangibles learned in school
(00:08:06) 終於進到Microsoft | Finally getting into Microsoft
(00:08:24) 2008金融風暴 Microsoft解僱五千人 | Then getting laid off
(00:09:36) 因為「富爸爸窮爸爸」 23歲就買房子 開啟投資理財之路 | Buying a house at 23, jounrey of finance
(00:11:33) 又回Microsoft 但薪水少1/3 | Taking a big pay cut
(00:12:07) 2010 從西雅圖到北京 | Seattle to Beijing
(00:12:58) 白天全職Groupon 晚上創業 | 2 jobs
(00:13:51) 土法煉鋼 做出「我搭車」App | Brute force ride sharing start up
(00:15:22) 贏得北京Startup Weekend 第二屆 第二名 | Second place at Beijing startup competition
(00:16:08) 創業最困難的挫折 | Hardest thing of doing start ups
(00:17:35) 沒有完善的商業模式 努力兩年最終結束創業 | Closing up the company
(00:20:13) 創業應該找好朋友還是單純夥伴 | Friend & business partner
(00:21:18) 美國創業 vs. 中國創業的差別 | Doing a startUp in US vs China
(00:22:48) 山寨和原創之間 | Imitation vs original
(00:24:21) 意外60天二度創業 JobScan | 60 days to start second start up
(00:26:27) 先求有再求好 | Do things that don’t scale
(00:28:24) 成功融資帶來的錯覺 | Illusion of success from fundraising
(00:31:27) 創業會選擇做大規模 還是單純有被動收入 | Going big or revenue
(00:33:48) 當你真心渴望 全宇宙都會聯合起來幫助你 | Being resourceful
(00:36:45) 聘請員工 高薪不是重點 | You don’t need to pay more for better talent
(00:39:26) 創業家視角：十年以後 | 10 year vision in entrepreneurship
(00:40:37) 進不了大學產生的人生理念 | Life views since not getting into desired college
(00:41:51) 最近的好習慣：十分鐘冥想 | 10 minutes meditation
(00:44:15) 慢慢來 比較快 | Slowing down is faster
(00:46:56) 時間管理 沒有大師 | Time management
(00:48:12) 效仿比爾蓋茲的Think Week | Bill Gates’s think week
(00:52:48) 面對家人離世仍保持正向 | Positive attitude despite family loss
(00:57:19) 對快樂的定義 | Definition of happiness
(00:58:56) 十年終於放了自己一年大假 | One year sabbatical after

Toxik & lilKrake - Run All Night | 徹夜狂奔 Track. 08
(CC English w/ Translation / 中英雙向翻譯字幕)

《4loating Dream》 Stream/Download (數位線上聽) :
​https://www.soundscape.net/a/14041

Almost about to quit this 不想就這樣浪費一生
受不了 厭倦那些過程 But I know it's my only mission
心中的火焰還沒熄滅，還有力氣再去全力衝刺一會。
Run All Night，不停狂奔。

Follow EVERYTHING ON @lilkrake / @toxicityishigh / @banana_kingdom105​

Banana Kingdom is an independent studio of lilKrake, a zero-cost music producer from Taiwan, completed the first official Mixtape - "4loating Dream" with his team partner Toxik.
All the songs are recorded and mixed independently by lilKrake, with the help of several domestic and foreign Beat Makers, and the mixtape cover drawn by a friend, successfully completed this almost zero budget project.
In "4loating Dream", these nine songs use melodic rap and Emo style to express the emotions and thoughts of the two artists' experiences and mental illnesses. Starting from "Fading Out", nine songs will take you into a gloomy world.
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Banana Kingdom 香蕉王國 為 lilKrake小章章 的個人獨立工作室，來自台灣的零花費音樂全製作主理人，與團隊夥伴 Toxik 共同完成了首張正式的 Mixtape - "4loating Dream"，所有歌曲的錄音混音皆由 lilKrake小章章 獨立完成，加上幾位國內外 Beat Makers 的協助及朋友所繪製的封面，用貼近零成本的方式製作完成。​
"4loating Dream" 中的9首歌曲以旋律饒舌及Emo的方式，饒唱出了兩人一生中因各種經歷、及精神上相關疾病所產生的各種情緒及想法。以 "Fading Out" 為此系列的開端，九首歌將帶你進入一整個陰鬱氛圍的世界。​
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詞 & 曲 | Lyrics & Composed by lilKrake小章章 & Toxik
錄音 | Recorded by lilKrake小章章
混音 | Mixed by lilKrake小章章 @lilkrake
母帶 | Mastered by lilKrake小章章
圖文設計 | Art Design by lilKrake小章章​
封面繪製 | Cover Painted by Ilya Galayda @the_magnetic_cat​
編曲 | Beat produced by Txxzy, Jasen @tommyjane_

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